Trash can rat

my mom just got mad at me because i had something on my story with the f-word. and one of her friends somehow saw, and told my mom. my mom realized she couldn’t see my instagram story, thought i was hiding something, and now wants to check my instagram account whenever she feels necessary. i tried to tell her that i just thought it was funny, and the reason she can’t see my story is because i put it to where only certain people can see it (only people i know) because i want to show all of my friends stuff.i can’t tell if i’m overreacting, but i just feel like she’s invading my privacy. what can i do to reason with her? (also i’m of age to have an instagram account)

So recently my friend got a message from this guy (they dont know him) saying "Watch your head", "i'm right behind you", stuff like that, he then made it a bit more specific "On Christmas Eve, watch your head. You're going to hit your head on a white shelf in your living room" has anyone else gotten this?

So I like this girl, she’s my best friend and I can’t stop thinking about us being together. But the problem is, she has a boyfriend. They seem so happy together and I want her to be happy. But I just can’t stop thinking about us being together. I don’t want to be a home wrecker because I know that would completely ruin our relationship, and once again, she’s happy with him. How can I get her out of my mind?

Hi, so I’m looking for a good gift for my best friends. I’m looking for somewhere around $15-$20 because there’s four of us. Any good ideas or starting points?

I've always had a good life, supportive parents, good friends, but I always just feel so empty. I always try to put on a smile and make sure my friends are okay, but I never make sure I'm okay. I really want to ask for help from my friends, but I don't know how, because I don't want to load all of this on them. But I've just been feeling really stressed, broken, and unlovable recently and I have no clue why. But I often stay up late at night crying because of how I feel, but I never have a reason to feel this way, so I always feel so bad for being so sad because I have a great life. But I just want to feel better. If you read this far, thank you so much for reading, it really means a lot.

Hi! So I feel like it´s kind of unfair that I can´t keep my phone in my room at night, let alone any electronics in my bedroom or bathroom at any time (Besides the chromebook I have to use for school) I´ve asked my parents about it a bunch but they just keep pushing it away. I have to be in bed at 9:30 and have lights off at 10:00, and I have a screen time limit that goes off at 9:30, so I cant use anything besides messages, call, and a breathing thing to calm me down (I can only text/call my parents and grandparents) And I know it kind of sounds stupid because ¨Why would I want my phone in my room so badly if I cant even use it?¨ But I just really like having it there because I often get kind of anxious when I hear sounds outside so it would really help because if something went wrong, my phone would be right there so I could call 911. I would also be able to use my breathing app to help calm me down. So what do you guys think? Sorry that this was so long, but thanks for reading :)

                               ✨Don´t forget to drink lots of water✨

Hi! So I recently came out to my grandparents as Non-binary, I also told them that I use they/them pronouns. Earlier we went to dinner and the continuously used she/her, even though my parents were using they/them pronouns and we all had a pretty long talk about my pronouns. Even right after that conversation “oh yeah, I think she’d like ———“. My grandma used an excuse “well, I’m just too old to change any of that now”. I know it takes a while to get used to, but it just really hurts.

Is there any way I can help them understand?

Hi! So I'm nonbinary and looking for a good name, since my name just doesn't feel right.

I currently go by Mack, but I've been thinking about Florian or Sage, but I'm not 100% sure I want to go by either of those.

I'm looking mainly for something plant/nature related but anything works, thanks!

Hi! So I'm nonbinary, and I like girls. But I'm not sure if I can identify as a lesbian since I'm not a girl. Would I still be able to identify as a lesbian or is there a certain word for this?

Hi! So I'm dating this girl, she's polysexual, and I'm polysexual. I'm also interested in this other girl which isn't poly, so how would that work? Would it just work out as me dating both of them while the other two just date me? Or would it not work out at all? 

No hate intended, if you got offended by this is any way I'm so sorry. I'm only trying to figure out how this works since I recently found out I'm poly :)

Also please no hate. If you don't like what my question is about then just move on with your day, it's that simple!

Hi! So I'm dating this girl, she's polysexual, and I'm polysexual. I'm also interested in this other girl which isn't poly, so how would that work? Would it just work out as me dating both of them while the other two just date me? Or would it not work out at all? 

No hate intended, if you got offended by this is any way I'm so sorry. I'm only trying to figure out how this works since I recently found out I'm poly :)

Hi, so recently, this girl I had a crush on asked me out, I said yes and we planned a date for the week after. But then two days later, she broke up with me, saying she still has feelings for her ex. She said how excited she was for the date thing and if we were still going, I felt bad saying no, so we kept the plans. Two days after, she texts me and asks me if I told her ex that we were flirting, I said no, I honestly have no clue who your ex is, she told me how her and her ex were having a pretty heated argument, I tell her I’m sorry that’s happening, yada yada yada. So we started talking a bit more like we used to, and every so often she throws in some heart emojis, just like she used to when we were dating. So its the day of the date, I’m about to go and she has to cancel because of family issues, I get it, no big deal. So I tell her it’s fine, she keeps saying sorry, and asks if we can plan for next week. I say “yeah, sure” and that’s that. But now I’m really confused, because I feel like she likes me, but I’m not sure, and I think I like her but I’m not sure. 

h e l p ;-;

So I came out as genderfluid about a month ago, and I told my parents that I want to start using they/them pronouns. They started, but then they stopped. I've tried correcting them, but that seems to only stick with them for a short amount of time. Is there any way that I can help my parents understand? Thanks!

Also, please no "there's only two genders!" Or "you can't use they/them pronouns, they're plural!" Comments. This will be greatly appreciated.

Hi! Like the title says, I need help with my gender identity.

On some days I feel really in touch with my femininity, and really want to show it. But other days, I feel really disconnected from that, and feel a bit more nonbinary. And on some days, I feel like a mixture of both. Over the past two weeks, I've been switching between wanting to embrace my feminine features, and wanting to hide them, such as binding my chest, getting a more gender neutral hairstyle, ect. I've also been slowly trying to get my parents to use they/them pronouns, also a more gender neutral name. So if anyone jas any tips on what I could possibly be, or coming back out to loved ones, that would help.

Thanks alot!

Here are some gender identities I've come up with that I've found that sort of suit what I'm ssying:

Demigirl (I'm currently out as)

Blender

Tenderloin

Androgynous