I need help with gender identity.?

Hi! Like the title says, I need help with my gender identity.

On some days I feel really in touch with my femininity, and really want to show it. But other days, I feel really disconnected from that, and feel a bit more nonbinary. And on some days, I feel like a mixture of both. Over the past two weeks, I've been switching between wanting to embrace my feminine features, and wanting to hide them, such as binding my chest, getting a more gender neutral hairstyle, ect. I've also been slowly trying to get my parents to use they/them pronouns, also a more gender neutral name. So if anyone jas any tips on what I could possibly be, or coming back out to loved ones, that would help.

Thanks alot!

Here are some gender identities I've come up with that I've found that sort of suit what I'm ssying:

Demigirl (I'm currently out as)

Blender

Tenderloin

Androgynous