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Long story. Forrgive me. My fiance has a neice who depended on him for years. And was so jealous when I came along that she has been hateful to me ever since even though I went out of my way to be nice to her. Her family fell apart when he started seeing because she relied on him. They blame me for everything even though all we did was fall in love. I've never been mean to her EVER.He has invited her toour wedding against my wishes and had told me I better not cause trouble even though I would NEVER do such a thing. And he knows she will and has refused to deal with her if she verbally on the day. He seems to not care if my day is ruined by her.

When I trim a video - the trimmed piece of film has a hissing noise over the soundtrack even though the original piece of film is fine. Is my sound card Kaput or is it something else?

Had five day period on 25th October. Had period again on 20 November, but it only lasted two days. From then on had nearly all symptoms of pregnancy until 17 December. Heavy for one day, then stopped. Took one HTP 22 November - negative. I don't know if I'm pregnant or heading for the menopause, or what. Not too stressed out or obsessed with having a baby (though if I was, I'd be thrilled). Anyone know or can suggest what's going on before I take a wasted journey to a doctor? Thanx in advance, gang!

Hi. Due period on Sunday 2nd May, but started bleeding on Thursday 29 April. It was light for three days and got slightly heavier today (Sunday 2nd). And it has a strong smell of urine - not usual with me. Pregnant or not? Anyone?

Hi, I'm living with my fiance. The wallpaper in his house has been on for at least twenty years and the decor and furniture has never been changed in all that time. The whole place looks dirty and tatty. However, he refuses to change it. It's not the money, as I have offered to pay for it myself. He says, he likes it as it is, and if I change anything, he will change it back and if I wallpaper or put decoration anywhere he will rip it down amd destroy it. He says he is fed of me wanting to destroy things! I want to make it nice for us, but he says it's fine as it is, except it isn't. I live there, but have no say in how it looks. I'm fed of the place looking tatty - what would you do.

My rabbit (who I love very much), has recently started pulling and chewing on her bottle when she is getting a drink. It pulls on the side of her cage and makes an horrendous banging noise and sometimes keeps us awake at night. She's had her teeth checked and she has plenty of stuff to chew. And I've checked the bottle and it's not broken or anything. Why is she doing this and how can I fix this? We love Alice, but the banging noise is driving us aroumd the bend. Advice, please?

Hi, Guys.

I got a kitten in September (she's was six months old) and think it is time she stopped using her litter tray and started going out at night like my other cat. My boyfriend says no as as she is too small. She was vaccinated and neutered months ago. My cat Garfield went out straight after he was vaccinated and neutered and he was fine. How do I get my boyfriend to stop smothering her? I love her, but she has to go out sometime. What you guys think?

Piccie of SAID CAT:

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First cat - one in the yellow box.

Does anyone agree that these people who come on Y/A asking to be a vampire/werewolf/wizard and so on really need to get out more?

To all the people who fit into this: Go away. No-one is remotely interested in your sad wishes to be something you're not. You're just losers!

GET A LIFE!!

Hi! Just want to know why people think it is so great that the BNP got seats in the election. You're going on like they're are really great.

You have no idea! They are just British Nazi's! Do you really want the holocaust all over again?

People like this should never ever rule a country ever ever again.

Too many innocent people have already died because of facism.

Yes, we need help with immigration, but NOT from them! They will start with immigrants, then turn on people who are different from them even if they are British.

Those of you that voted BNP, what the hell were you thinking!!!!????

First read last message.

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Okay, still didn't get period on 4 May, and still getting negative HTP's. Am I pregnant or not?

Thanks, Guys n Girls!

Hi. Was due period on Monday 4 May. Actually started on Friday 1st. Had period two days and stopped. Never had early period before and ussually they last a whole week. Not stressed out, though quite tired. Haven't changed lifestyle in any way. Negative HPT on Monday 4 May. Very confused. Advice, please? Thank you in advance!

My fiance (much as I love him) is driving me mad!

The house full of clutter, that he hasn't used in years. Some of it belongs to his parents, who went to Spain and left it here. He refuses to get rid saying it's his parents' stuff, so it's not his to throw away. i have an arm injury, so I can't do much housework anyway, but complains I am not doing enough (he forgets my arm hurts all the time) and also doesn't get it that I can't do the housework with all his rubbish in the way. When do a bit of tidying up, he complains that I am moving his stuff about! He says he will end or relationship if i remove anything from the house. Please help, he's driving me bonkers!

Okay, I have to say this, or I will go mad. I'm getting really fed up with constantly reading questions that say , "Can I download this/that for free?". I work in a cinema and what you all want to do is tantamount to copy write theft. For heaven's sake stop breaking the law, and put your hands in your pockets and get money out. Pay for movies, video, etc, and stop expecting everything for nothing. Downloading is piracy and is illegal and puts the jobs of people like me in jeopardy. And before you say the cinema is too expensive - don't bother. it doesn't excuse piracy or breaking the law. My question is:

A) Why do you persist in doing it?

B) Any cinema person totally agree?

Anyone know how I can make a complaint to Northern Rail. I am fed up of being late for work because Northern Rail either run their trains late or cancel them all together. And because the station I start from is in the sticks, there is no announcements either, so you are stood there freezing to death waiting for a train that doesn't arrive! It took me three hours to get from East Garforth to Glasshoughton on Wednesday. It's pathetic.

Anyone know how I can make a complaint to Northern Rail. I am fed up of being late for work because Northern Rail either run their trains late or cancel them all together. And because the station I start from is in the sticks, there is no announcements either, so you are stood there freezing to death waiting for a train that doesn't arrive! It took me three hours to get from East Garforth to Glasshoughton on Wednesday. It's pathetic.

Hello to everyone who will be celebrating Eid on Monday 8 November 2008. I have just one request to make. If you are planning to go to the cinema, I would like to ask why you feel it necessary to attack the staff and other customers. They have paid their money, too and don't deserve to be intimidated. We should not have to put up with it. And we don't kick you out of the cinema because we're racist (we are not). We kick you out because you are not following the rules, as we would with any customer. If you want to cause trouble go elsewhere.

Hi, gang! I want go to Ibiza for my birthday in March (well I actually wanted to go skiing but it's too expensive). I am really into dance music and would love to go to a club in San Antonio or somewhere. The thing is my boyfriend is worried that we may be refused entry to a club as I will be 40 and he will be 51, but we feel young, and only look thirty and he looks forty-ish. Are clubs allowed to be ageist like this? I don't think it should matter if you want to have a good time. They will get our money in their pocket after all!

Tried to go to Palin's Travels today and keep getting a box up that says I need a password to visit the site. I know you don't - you log in when you get to it, but it won't even let me go there and I can't get rid of the box without turning off the computer. It's getting annoying! Help!

I have to travel by public transport to work. My boyfriend has to collect me at night, because there is no public transport to my house. One Friday of each month, he has to work nights, so he can't collect me. my manager usually gives me the day off, if I ask in advance. However, next month she has refused because it is summer and we will be busy. I can't get home. They refuse to give me the day off or give me an earlier shift so I can go on the train, or give me a taxi because I live too far away. My boyfriend has to do this and I can't get home. Both my boyfriend and boss are saying tough. I'm stuck in middle. Don't want to refuse to turn up for work, as I like my managers. Can't afford taxi fare for myself, would be a days wages. Help!

Hi, did anyone see the Christmas episode of To The Manor Born? What did you think? What do fans think is best quote or scene from the original programme? Happy new Year fellow Y/A's people!