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I have a recurring dream almost every time i go to sleep, its becoming more frequent,

I always see that we (my family and I) have moved into a new house, and every night i go to close the doors and windows i find new rooms and more doors and windows and i can never finish closing all of them. I find new rooms and new doors and windows in unexpected places, its never ending and then i usually i wake up.

what does this mean??

any ideas?

my 3 yrs old cat keeps beating up my 1 and a half year old cat

they have been together for over a year

they were fine all this time but recently the older one attacks the younger one now and then

i clap my hands loud to break it off

any idea why he is doing this, thanks

my 2 cats follows me around all the time

its so adorable

they follow me to the kitchen, bathroom and ofcourse they will always sleep at the foot of my bed

always without fail

they sleep when i sleep

they watch tv when i watch tv

they watch me do the housework

do ur cats do the same

pls share ur joy with us

thnx

Which one is better cattery or pet sitters?

i m going away on holiday and cant make up my mind as where to leave my cats..

in the past i left them at the cattery and someone suggested using pet sitting service, where i leave them at home and someone will come and feed and clean them everyday.

even though they are cheaper than catteries,

firstly i am worried about leaving my house keys to total strangers

and secondly what if they dont come 1 day, what will happen to my cats!!

some suggestions pls,

thanks

i m going away on holiday and cant make up my mind as where to leave my cats..

in the past i left them at the cattery and someone suggested using pat sitting service, where i leave them at home and someone will come and feed and clean them everyday.

even though they are cheap than catteries, firstly i am worried about leaving my house keys to total strangers and secondly what if they dont come 1 day...

pls give me some suggestions, thanks

and its now come to the point where people in the house is now asking me to get rid of it. how can i...

his fur is everywhere

even after i brush him he sheds

is thr anything i can do or use to help this situation.

thanx

i have found myself recently single and friends are pushing me to start looking before its too late.. so i tried this online dating thing... and i only get response from what i could only describe as 'creeps'.

aren't there any good single guys out there in their 30's ???

or am i looking in the wrong place??

i know that smoking is dangerous pls dont lecture me on that i am fully aware of the consequences...

but i want to now how much more/less are the dangers of taking up the habit in nes 30's.

its been 2 years since my dad passed away and nowadays i m feeling his absence more than ever

the doctor said that its belated bereavement, that i didnt have any closure cause he just died suddenly in his sleep

he also said that i need to go to councelling, i can cope with this all alone

i have just started treatment for depression..

to those who lost their real special ones, is there really an end to this misery?

will i ever get over this, at this moment i dont see the end..

is there anyone who could help?

we recently put in a three piece white bathroom set

the problem now is how to keep is clean, shiny and sparking and limescale free, without using bleach or cilit bang.

i have children and pets at home and i dont think its safe to use any form of toxic products

what can u recommend?

he used to be very affectionate

always walking by my feet and used to follow me around everywhere

he used to sleep on my chest everynight and if i put him away he would cry and get back on my chest again

recently he just does what ever he likes

stares out the window all day, doesnt like to be picked up and cuddled

he now sleeps on the rug

he has changed alot

my friend said that this is a normal adult cat behaviour but i am worried is this a normal?

do vets have a system when we can pay a monthly amount towards the treatment of a pet? instead of paying it all at one go can i spread the cost?

will it include regular vaccination fee, worming and other minor or major vet visit fees??

i have no idea i always paid as i needed to go but now i have 2 cats and the costs are piling up

i didnt want to ask the vets first as i didnt want to look like an ignorant fool

thanks

i never lived in a centrally heated place before

this is my first time

i dont know if i should leave it on all the time 24/7

its a machine can it cope?

i turn it off at night and now i have the flu

i am thinking of keeping it on all the time now

but at lower temp.

is that wise??

my 1 and a half year old cat got the 10 week old new kitten by the neck with his jaws and held him down twice

i now keep them in seperate rooms

question is,

was he trying to kill him?

why did he do it?

will i ever be able to keep them in the same room?

the little one wants to curl up on my lap but cant cos of the big one

how to solve this problem?

thanks

i have this adorable very wellbehaved cat but since a week now he suddenly attacks me for no reason. he will jump on me and start biting my hands and scratching my legs. and then i have to shout at him to stop. i have always been very gentle with him and never raised my voice to him but now until i scream 'STOP' he doesnt.

why is this happening? what is wong ith him??

i know i have asked this before and people told me not to worry too much, but this is getting serious

my nephew who is 3 yrs and 2 months is not talking properly

he talks alllll day long none stop but he never utters a single word that makes any sense

he says ma to his mother and everything else is blah blah blah blah

literally

what do you guys think ??

the doctors say not to worry and to give it some more time

but we are terribly worried, his younger brother of nearly 2 yrs is already uttering words...

is there anything else we can do???

experts say that chocolates are harmful for cats

they have a kind of toxin in them which can be dangerous

is this true?

i have a very good looking cute tabby cat

he is grey and black with white socks and glove like paws

everyone who sees him says he is handsome

i took him to the vets the other day and there was an eldery lady with her cat sitting at reception, she takes a look at my tabby and says

'oh what a good looking cat, i have never had an ordinary cat in my life, but he is not too bad for an ordinary one'

what the ..... does that mean??

cats are like babies u love your babies regardless of their breed.

All pets are special to their owners, arent they?

Or are there people who only want cats to show off?

i cant imagine how she treated 'ordinary cats' in her time.

i watch this programme called Airline on ITV

and in every episode without fail they are arguing with their customers and they refuse to accomodate people

should they improve their services..

please share you experiences ....