Felix The Cat

There was only one chick who would even talk to me when I was in High School. She was perfect: nice, sweet, friendly, intelligent, girly, flirty, good-looking, etc. Needless to say I couldn't believe she would talk to me, slow dance with me in parties, give me her phone number, etc.

I lost track of her because we went to colleges in different parts of the U.S. Fast forward around 25 years. A few weeks ago we became friends on facebook.

She is in a relationship and of course, I'm happy for her. I'm just curious, she never specified if she is interested in men or women. I mean all men specify that they are interested in women. If a woman doesn't specify interest in men or women, does that usually mean they are interested in women? I know is none of my business but I'm wrecking my brains over this one. I'm just like that guy in the Clint Eastwood movie: "I got to know, I just got to know".

Women are so confusing for me.

Please help me if you can.

Thanks.

Just like Lion Heart, Prince Harry returns back home a war hero.

No member of the Bush family goes to the unnecessary war they invented.

How does it make you feel as an American citizen? Do you feel as ashamed as I do? Once again we prove to the whole world to see how incredibly arrogant we are.

I've been having a crush on my only female friend for around two years. We live in different states but communicate by mail and e-mail. I've been trying to stay in the background to see if someday I can become something more to her. She calls me her main supporter and I'm sure she knows how I feel about her.

I'm always nice to her. Last year I sent her a Valentine's Day e-mail and she replied back right away as a frined with a friendly Valentne's Day e-card. So, this year I tried the same thing. I do acknowledge I went a little bit deeper because this time I included what happened in a couple of dreams I had. Nothing but G-rated stuff being together, k-i-s-s-i-n-g, having kids, etc. The rest of the e-mail was the regular stuff she's heard from me before: she is the most wonderful woman in the world, I wouldn't trade her for Jessica Biel, etc.

Now, she never got back to me and I'm not holding my breath either. However, did I upset her so much our friendship is over?

What should I do?