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Ladies, once again I need your help?

There was only one chick who would even talk to me when I was in High School. She was perfect: nice, sweet, friendly, intelligent, girly, flirty, good-looking, etc. Needless to say I couldn't believe she would talk to me, slow dance with me in parties, give me her phone number, etc.

I lost track of her because we went to colleges in different parts of the U.S. Fast forward around 25 years. A few weeks ago we became friends on facebook.

She is in a relationship and of course, I'm happy for her. I'm just curious, she never specified if she is interested in men or women. I mean all men specify that they are interested in women. If a woman doesn't specify interest in men or women, does that usually mean they are interested in women? I know is none of my business but I'm wrecking my brains over this one. I'm just like that guy in the Clint Eastwood movie: "I got to know, I just got to know".

Women are so confusing for me.

Please help me if you can.

Thanks.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Not necessarily, it may be that she assumed that everyone would know she was intrested in guys and didn't feeel the need to specify. Or maby she just missed checking the male or female box for who she was intrested in.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think it really means anything. My Facebook says that I'm there for 'whatever I can get!'.. yet I don't accept friend requests from people I don't know.. and I'm not looking for love.

    It could just be she hasn't bothered to display it.

    However, she may be interested in women.. but surely she'd be fairly open about it.. especially if she is in a relationship (if it's a woman).

    Maybe she's bi? I'm not sure if there is a selection for 'men and women'.

    I think it is most likely she just hasn't displayed it because she can't be bothered.

    However, if it really is bothering you.. you might try mentioning it in a jokey way.

    Say something like.. "Your profile doesn't say whether you prefer men or women. What are you trying to say? :P"

    Good luck x

  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like she just didn't specify...that's all. I don't think I would read into that. I have Facebook and I haven't specified if I'm interested in men or women. I don't think everyone specifies on of the information on there.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Doesn't mean anything.

    I am a woman and I never bothered to specify such things on facebook. I just think it's pretty obvious.

    Women are so NOT confusing! Just chill kay

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If a woman doesn't specify her interest, it doesn't mean a thing, trust me! None of my girlfriends (all straight by the way) or me put our prefered interests on facebook. I don't know why, I guess it's to keep things a bit mysterious ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    She probably thinks that putting that information up is too personal,or wants to mysterious,but its a possibility that she is interested in both men and women

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    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    I have a facebook too and im in a relationship so i didnt put "interested in men or women" because im not. im interested in my boyfriend and thats it.

    So it could be my kind of situation.

    or she could be bi

    i dont know her lol.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you have been chatting on facebook then why dont you just ask her thats the only your going to know

    good luck best wishes

    angeldelight xx

  • 1 decade ago

    Ask her to meet up somewhere as a (friend) then ask her if your intersted in the other sex. To make it easier just ask her on Facebook.

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