Kristen

He is the cutest, sweetest cat for being a stray/feral, but if he keeps lying in his box to pee and getting saturated with urine and then tracking it all over my house, carpet, bed, I am not going to be able to keep him! I am getting freaked out thinking of all of the surfaces in my home (including myself) that are probably covered in cat pee!! What should/can I do? I don't want to give up but I might have to.

My relationship with the man that I love the most throughout my entire life is riding on this... I found an empty box of condoms in his drawer, with an expiration date of 2017... We have been together for the last year, we don't use condoms... Is there any way that these could be that old, like, purchased before we were together, back in 2011/2012? I read online that condoms usually expire 3-4 years after manufacture date... My BF SWEARS that there is no way, because he has not bought or used condoms since we have been together. I am usually a very suspicious and perceptive person when it comes to seeing through peoples BS, but the way he is talking about this makes me think that he is PROBABLY telling me the truth, and that he has NOT cheated on me... Can anyone tell me if this could be possible??

I am so freaked out lately. My boyfriend is a convicted felon, he's spent years in prison (way back when he was young and dumb- Like 19)... and he has this "best friend" whom he goes to his house and smokes weed ALL the time- When he and I are not together, he is with his friend Todd... It's kind of weird. Anyway, he sometimes makes comments to me about Todd like "I think he's gay-- He's never around any women:" ... And they fight and bicker like boyfriend and girlfriend... it's weird, like Todd is so posessive of my BF's time- always like he's "competing" with me... My bf has a hard time pleasing both of us, because we are both always asking for his time... Not only all of that, but my BF's ex-GF talked to me about him once, and told me that she always had a suspicion that Todd was gay, and that they may possibly be "hooking up", because she just felt like I do- Like their relationship is a little bit ODD. On top of THAT??! My bf just told me the other day that he has bright red blood in the toilet almost every time he has a bowel movement... Umm, hemorroids I guess, but WHY?? Could it be anal sex with his f*ing best buddy Todd??! I am flipping out... THEN, my BF was talking about going over to Todd's the other day and started to say "yeah I went over there the other day and he was sitting there on the couch with his balls just hanging....." he trailed off, he meant to say "balls hanging out" I know, of course, but he knows I have had suspicions about their relationship, and I think he caught himself saying something that might cause me to confront or ask him, like, WTF?!! I just left it alone, didn't say anything, we both changed the subject. He avted all sweet to me for the next hour or so- like sweeter than normal... We argue all the time, so I'd HATE to bring up yet another fight- it seems like we are in a fight over something almost weekly... it's really taking a toll on both of us, so I'd rather not piss him of, but I think I've got to know... SOON. He's always saying he's going over there just for a few mins... like, when he gets off of work at 9pm... instead of "stopping by" to see ME, he goes over there- I know they smoke pot together, and that might be part of why he's always with him, but I am seriously concerned... and if I find out that I am right, I will be SO sick, and won't want anything to do with him... what do you guys think??? HELP!

I'm constantly losing my tragus piercing studs- little diamond ones- Who knows where they go or when I had lost them, but does anyone have this issue, and what can I do to keep them in? Is it because maybe it's cheap jewelry? Any suggestions?

I'm curious how often most women who shave their legs and under-arms daily change out their razor head replacement? What about disposable razors? Do you think that those tend to wear out quicker?

My boyfriend was in the hospital ER for a massive headache, and he had a (gay) male nurse... My boyfriend called me in to sit by him, and I did... then after the CT was read, and I knew he was gonna be OK, I decided to leave.... My boyfriend told me later that night that after I left, the gay nurse started TOTALLY hitting on him- Giving him neck and back massages (I'm a nurse myself, and I don't give out massages to my patients)!! The nurse also told my boyfriend that he should call him if he ever wanted to trade back massage for a car detailing (which is what my boyfriend does right now) and gave him his NUMBER!! When my bf told me this later that night, I was shocked! I was like, "He HAS to know that you are NOT GAY"!! and "Why do gay men hit on or go after men that they know or DON'T know are straight?! Does my bf give off some vibe or something? He's definitely NOT feminine at ALL. He's very much a mans' man. Any gay men want to weigh in on this??

They are asking me for court documents regarding the arrest I had (it was a traffic violation, not a crime)... I was not convicted of a felony, which is what I thought they were concerned about? It's taking forever to get my license approved because of this issue, and I'm kind of worried they may not approve my license because of this traffic violation?! It's not a "criminal" issue? Could I end up getting denied my license after being a nurse for ten years??

I've heard of this happening- Couples who are unable to conceive by themselves who find a young woman who has an unplanned/unwanted pregnancy, and they pay the woman for her "services", basically- and then pay for the child when it is born? Does this even happen? If so, how would you find an opportunity like this?

I'm not talking about using it until it's completely dull and worthless- Just want to know how many whole legs can be shaved with one disposable razor before you get a new one (to keep a nice close smooth shave)?

I really like my best friend, and we've both had feelings for eachother at some point in our 7 year friendship- right now it's me who seems to have the feelings, but I can tell he does, too- we don't know what were doing :/ But we tend to hang out almost every night! I wonder if I should decline once in a while when he asks if I'm coming over... it's kind of assumed that we're gonna hang out most every evening... I want to see him every day, but I wonder if I need to keep him interested (by not being so readily available)....

Last night, I tested kind of early (4 days before my expected period) and it gave me ONE LINE which means negative. Then, today, I glanced at the test sitting on the counter, and another line had developed to make a POSITIVE symbol.... Should I take this seriously, or is that just something that happens?

I'm applying for my license in a new state- I sent my fingerprints in about 2 weeks ago, and they say the FBI background check is still pending... What's a normal turnaround for this to get done and back to the board of nursing so they can approve my license? I start grad school in the fall and need a current license just to apply :/

I haven't been eating lately (new medications) and I've noticed more gas pains in my intestines :/ Is that common?

I used to never remember my dreams, ever. But since starting Adderall, I am remembering like, every detail, and they are very vivid and real-life based dreams! It's kinda crazy, and I'm attributing it to my recent start on Adderall, I don't know what else it could be... anyone else?

My God. I'm not from TX but I live here now. I have never seen such rude, inconsiderate drivers in my life- ANYWHERE!! If you need to merge, they see you with your blinker on, and they see that you have to merge or you'll DIE, but they WILL NOT LET YOU IN. NO WAY, NO HOW! It just boggles my mind how rude they are. Also, they drive on the freeway in the fast (left) lane slow as hell, and will not move to the right lane when someone is behind them clearly going faster... Nope. They won't. That's what those lanes are FOR. Why-Oh-Why are they such ******* here? This is supposed to be such a "friendly" state :/

They always sound like they're having tons of fun, and they're listening to music all day!! It seems like everyone would want that job, so it's probably not even worth trying to get into, huh? Do they typically go to a vocational school for Radio?

Like, I'm not stupid, I get the point. You're tired. You worked all day, I know... But why ask me over if you're just going to make me feel un-welcome?! And I never leave his place without sex first- But I just left. And he didn't stop me. GRRR. Men, seriously.

This is the most ridiculous thing ever. I mean, how much more can the government intervene in our private matters? People can't make their own decision to drink a sh*tload of soda? That's THEIR problem, not the GOVERNMENT!! And what about those of us who drink Diet Coke?! I am in disbelief right now...

It's ridiculous! And I'm sure I will get a ton of "thumbs down" because I brought it up- I have a feeling there are a LOT of childish people on this silly site who aren't taking some of the more serious questions seriously. I have given legitimate, educated answers several times, and have seen people rate "thumbs down" when there really was absolutely no reason for it. Get a freaking life, you kids!!