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Ok so I got this kitten for the house and was really hoping that she would be an outside outdoor cat, with a free run of the house and all that, but now I am faced with a little problem, she doesn't even like to go out, I have a feeling that she is in love with me and my dogs, especially the smaller one. So I think I won't be able to leave her behind when I go travelling on holiday. So I have this question, would taking her with me to another country be safe? Has anyone done this before? She is not one of those cats that walks on a lead, I think idea of a cat on a lead is ridiculous.

I have this question to those who have continued some sort of a relationship with their abuser, maybe a parent or a relative? I have been through a lot of abuse in my childhood, I in my infinite wisdom decided that a route to my recovery would be to forgive my abusers and try to build bridges because they're my parents after all. How can water be thicker  than blood, right? So, I tried really hard to extend this hand of dialog and I thought if we talked about it if they knew how much they've hurt me and how it messed me up it would somehow help me and I would be able to move on.....

Instead, I had a very harsh lesson that only now I am realising, not only they have refused to talk about their wrong doing such as sexual abuse they made out that I was crazy. I did everything to understand their behaviour towards me, I even went to research their past. Dad had some physical abuse, mother was spoilt rotten. so really there is no excuse to do what they did.

My question is, have any of you tried to confront your abuser and what was their reaction? was it a positive experience for you?

I self-harm, I always need stitching, it's pretty bad for example last night I had to have 39 stitches. I have learned to look after my wounds and stich them up. Not very good, but it gets me by. Yet, the worse I get the more I ask for help the more I am ignored. So I figured, that mental health professionals are quite ok with me committing suicide. And I know that eventually I will do it. but sometimes I wish I just got help and got better. It is tiring to live emotionally so exhausting.

Question on suicide.

Hi everyone, I am missing the meaning in my life, or let’s say the meaning that I have within my perceptive parameters are not worth me staying alive. Which makes me either very stupid, or very depressed, neither of which I believe I am.

Nothing is really wrong with me or my life. In fact I am pretty liked by everyone at work and clients I have relatively normal dysfunctional family, (myself I have no children). I don’t want to have children, I prefer to spend time on my own, I don’t enjoy things in life, I do try to go out and meet people and play the cheerful persona. I do all the things that normal healthy person should do. But I simply do not enjoy any of it. I am more fascinated with philosophy of life and death, universe and other side (that keeps calling me). I have no addictions, no disasters in my life, no money worries, apart from the fact that I have this undying wish to die.

I have my chosen very deadly method ready. I know that my thoughts and mood with take me to this place where I finally act on my thought and kill myself.

My question is; I in my heart and in my head believe that suicide it’s absolutely ok and normal thing to do. Yes I will cause some heartache to people but they will get over it and carry on. Why do people get so upset with the notion of ending one’s life? Why is it such a bad thing?

Why am I missing this love for living this love that others have? Why to me it feels absolutely ok soothing calming and I look forward to that mental push that is coming?

What is going on with me?

P.S if I could exchange my youth and donate returns for bettering the environment, I would.

Lets say 40mmol bag, and what sensations one would experience?

The ANSWERS has become big part of my life and I just want to carry it with me everywhere i go. or i would like to join a community on BB that does discuss matters in a similar fashion as on here.

Why do you feel the loss of your loved ones since you always preach about eternal life you should rejoice in their death as that lucky person has presumably gone to heaven?

In your own words can you explain to me what is the moral of the story please?

And will this affect a person eligibility to enter countries such as Canada, America etc? Is being sectioned in the past could affect persons chances of a job?

Bear in mind, its sectioned not actually diagnosed as mental. i.e released without further treatment.

No one has ever been to heaven or hell, yet many caricature those places as if they had personal input in their creation and build paths to those places with their own bare hands. isn't it about time we created much more credible theory?

But why would souls place in Gods domain be defined by physical deeds on earth? aren't they separate matters (our physical bodies and soul) and physical body should not matter at all?

it's not a question of if I should or shouldn't do it,

bear in mind that in UK it's kind of hard to get hold of a gun. In my case its almost impossible

Ok, I was babysitting my niece one night in my brothers house and tv licence people turned up asking if I had a tv licence. I told them I did not live there and I did not know if the property owner had tv licence as I was just babysitting, so this person asked my name just for their records. Foolishly I gave them my name. 3 years later I receive a letter from the courts saying that I owe £220 for non payment of tv licence.

I wonder if you know of any law or where I could look in to and defend myself from those money grabbing useless BBC and appeal the court decision. please help.

After being banned do you have to re-take your licence? that is after driving for 6 years.

Ok, few days ego I was caught speeding by police camera. They stood on the bridge I presume they used a speeding gun to record my speed.

87mph in a 70mph road.

How do I avoid the prosecution?

Will I get caught in any security tec that might or might not be protecting Westminster? Security like laser beams and so on or is it a bit far fetched?

If I have Road tax and insurance but no MOT, would it show on the police Computers as I know Insurance shows.