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my friend started talking about how she wanted to go drinking this weekend, so we texted some guy to get us some and we'd pay him back. turns out this guy wants more than money for it. he also wanted a hookup. my friend nominates me to do it, even though I don't want to. I'm not going to do it, although she's insisting that I do. then also pay for the alcohol on top of it. she starts inviting more people to drink with us, and then gets the crazy idea to make a profit for us both.

1. if anyone would make a profit, it would be me [although I refuse to do this anymore]. am I wrong? she wouldnt have done anything to gain the profit.

2. this is shady right? shes been my best friend for years..

3. how should I get out of this situation

I had two best friends (that I would hang out with separately, because they weren't really friends).

My one friend got a boyfriend and they've been together for a year. Me and her used to spend all of our time together, but I feel like she has almost disappeared out of my life. Her whole life is now her bf and her family.

My other friend is the same, she's disappeared to be with her boyfriend and their new crowd.

this makes me feel lonely, and I now feel like I have only one close friend. I never have anyone to make plans with...I feel like I NEED a boyfriend to make me less lonely. HELP

okay so today during swimming my tampon leaked! like as soon as I got outta the pool it was running down my legs and I think the guys saw and it was all over the locker room floor so they had to clean it up. I'm embarrassed to go back there and I feel like everyone knows... someone make me feel better and give me confidence to show my face there again.. I'm mortified..do you have any leak stories that might help me get through it?

I was babysitting a 2 year old boy today and spinning him on an office chair. not fast at all, and he was enjoying it. he loves spinning so this was something he also enjoyed.

all of a sudden he turned bright red and his whole body got stiff. his eyes were moving back and forth and he started crying and he was really scared. could this have been a seizure?

also, his arms may have been very stiff, but it almost looked like he was pointing at something in the corner of the room, so I looked. nothing was there and I went over to inspect and he started wailing even harder. this really scared me. I told his aunt about it but she just kinda waved it off..

help! what was this?!??!?

okay, after watching the show "switched at birth", I became a little curious as to my biological family.

I was taken from my mom (addicted to stuff, kinda crazy and poor). I was the result of a sperm bank donation to her. my mother has told me that I have a few other siblings, also adopted out. I am 15, they would be at least 5 years older than me.

I would love to find out about my history and maybe contact one of them, but I am afraid of how my parents would feel.. do you think I should wait until I am 18? I was adopted in Chicago.

also, would it be easier to find my biological father since I was "created" (can't think of the other word for it) through a sperm bank?

my brother is also adopted, and I know a few other people that are, but I just dont feel comfortable discussing this with them. I was adopted when I was about 4, my parents fought for me, along with several other families who wanted me, in court for several years. I just dont know where to start. any help? I feel kinda lost.

okay, so my friend "John" is African American. some of the people in our class have had a debate with him on the words "*****" and "******". he claims that only other black people can call each other ******, but calling each other that is an open invitation for others to call them that. i think its kind of hypocritical of him. hes turned on me since im white and keeps calling me a racist. im just saying, if you dont wanna be called something, dont call yourself it. can you help me out here on his logic.

on weekends I usually get 13 hours of sleep.

weekdays I usually require 8-9 or more.

I always have headaches (I always tell the doctors about this and all they say is that I may require glasses, but after going to the eye doctor, I have 20/20 vision..)

is this just due to stress or what? I'm starting to get worried

I've also been sick off and on for the past few months.

we are having a small dinner gathering at my house tomorrow and most of our guests are vegetarians. what should i serve as the main dish? all i can think of are fruit kabobs...

"I have a scratch under my rib"

I wanna say something flirty without sounding dumb. help?

When I get home after school & soccer, the house is still exactly as I left it. My mom is a stay at home mom so she has all the time in the world to help around the house, but she chooses not to. She doesn't make us dinner. She doesn't clean anything (which drives me insane). she refuses to walk her own dogs. she lets the dogs rule the house. and while we're all at school/work she just SITS THERE or sleeps. its just really starting to get to me and my dad. we're the ones who do all the work around the house while her and my brother sit around napping and ordering us around. I would surely understand if my mom had a legit reason not to be able to do stuff, but I feel like my house is absolutely filthy. I don't know how to tell her this without her slapping me or yelling&leaving the house like she always does when something doesn't go her way. please help!

my cat is spayed so she's not pregnant

but whenever i pet her tummy its pretty distended and it feels like there is something hard inside of it

its not fat by the way

could this be worms or something?

she's 3

there are questions for the reader in the back of the book. what are they?

my phone was stolen today from my biology class in school, filed a report with the school, filing my report with the police monday. if I have the IEMI number, can the police track my stolen phone? I know tmobile claims not to have the technology to do so, so I was wondering if the police could do anything about this..? otherwise I will have to order a new one..

my phone was stolen today from my biology class in school, filed a report with the school, filing my report with the police monday. if I have the IEMI number, can the police track my stolen phone? I know tmobile claims not to have the technology to do so, so I was wondering if the police could do anything about this..? otherwise I will have to order a new one..

She always "magically" produces items for me that she "bought". I know for a fact she does not buy them because she steals soooo much. all the time... I really hate going to the store with her cuz I see her stealing ALL THE TIME. then she goes around and tells me how much she hates people that steal.. she is such a hypocrite!!!! I also believe she smokes behind my family's back. any help on dealing with this ... situation?

okay so I was hanging with my ex today & my friend. my ex walked up to me, kissed my cheek, and whispered to me "I love you". ahh I just love him so much.. any quotes to explain this?

me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month.. we hang out often, but not too much. i really, really like him. when we hang out, we legit do hangout. [we have kissed & madeout many times] but we're not like most couple that sit there making out. just cuddle & talk. it's nice, and I don't feel pressure like most of my other boyfriends, but sometimes I do kinda wanna do more than just sit on a couch holding hands, ya know? should I make a first move? how do I do this? guys, what do you think? how would you want a girl to make the first move?

And my boyfriend have been going out a little over a week. He's liked me for a few months andni just started liking him a month or so ago. We usually hang out every weekend but this weekend was different. He ran off with his friends and left me alone. He played football all night and I sat awkwardly with some of his other friends and my good guy friend. His friends tell me not to worry cuz he always talks about me and he's not like that...but I don't know. A lot of girls hit on him and I know he doesn't mind the attention. What should I do? Also, he seems bored when he texts me but it's different in person.....? Any advice would save me...he hasn't texted me today and we talk every day no matter what. I feel like I'm bothering him... What should I do?

My friend who I hardly ever talk to asked me to go to homecoming with him so I said yes, thinking it would be just as friends. Long story short, he thinks the opposite. He's telling all his friends that were dating, and he never even asked me out. All he asked was 'wanna go to homecoming with me?' how do I let him down real gentle? I kinda wanna go with my other friend, who I like and he likes me back... My 'date' is real shy so what should I say?

my dad recently told me that he would love to have an office chair thats made of wood with a leather seat. we just moved into a new house and it would really complete his office. long story short, i want to surprise him with a chair like this. any ideas where i could find one? links would be very appreciated!!! any suggestions would really help! thanks!