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Okay, I'm 20 and I'm curious what the masses think about how I acted in my most recent, and longest relationship ( 2 years)

First off it was fine, but about a year in we started arguing about the way she was acting. There was this guy, who I knew beyond a doubt that wanted my g/f. He flat out told a very good friend of mine. Everyday between classes I would see him leaning over her at her locker, definitely within the "presonal bubble". They would hangout all the time and all that. She just dismissed that anything was going on, and say I was being stupid when I wanted her to stop hanging out with him.

Eventually I gave her an ultimatum, him or me, this is past my comfort zone, so that's the choice. She did stop hanging out with him.

But, she started a new job, and started hanging out with this guy that I didn't know at all. Would go spend the entire day "shopping" in London, Ontario. Me and her had eachothers email passwords, and facebook, one day I went on her email because I had some pictures stored of my truck and I needed them. I noticed that there was over 80 deleted emails (hotmail, it shows up in the corner), curious I looked and about 3/4 were from this guy, over the course of a couple months.

They would talk about every little dirty detail of our relationship, she'd tell a story about a fight, where as far as I'm concerned, she was totally in the wrong. But she would skip over that part. I have a pet peeve about people saying they will do things, and then never doing them, we fought about that the most.

At the end of most of the emails it would be signed "Luff You", which was way way too much for me.

I confronted her, and we talked, a lot. She made all kinds of promises, respect my wishes and all that. But within a few months she dumped me for a friend of mine ( no longer a friend), saying I was too controlling?

So, that is as close to the truth as I remember it, because it's not like I know any of your people. Was I too controlling? Or mostly in the right?

I'm asking for future reference with my next g/f.

I'm a 20 year old male that has been having annoying knee pain for a few years. I realise that nobody who answers this is going to be able to say for sure what the cause is, but at least give me ideas on what to tell the doctor when I do see him.

This has been going on for 5-6 years now, my family doctor basically writes it off as nothing, tells me I have jeuvenile oesteo-arthritis. But he lists the symptoms and they don't fit me, hardly at all.

So the pain:

Never there in the morning.

Is at the back of the knee, on the inside, seems to come from the very prominant tendon you can see/feel in the back of most peoples legs.

Standing or walking for long periods agravates it.

Stairs up or down, make almost no difference.

Biking( I have been HEAVILY into mountain biking for years, my whole life basically) there is never any pain.

The back of my leg swells when the pain is there.

A simple tensor wrap or stretchy knee brace almost immediately relieves the pain, 100%.

My calf and back of the thigh both always have that feeling of the day after you work out. Where you need you stretch. And stretching the front of my leg (quads) relieves the pain temporarily.

The pain is a dull feeling, not around the kneecap at all, and only on the inside of the back on my knee. I can still walk just fine, putting my knee in any position but dead straight also relieves the pain. Running doesn't aggravate it anymore than walking does.

I plan on going to the doctor with a list similar to the one I wrote out here, but basically I'm wondering if anybody can point me in the right direction with what this may be..

Okay I am without word of a lie, about 8 1/4 inches long, and I'm not sure on the girth but a little more than average.

I've had a few sexual partners, and lately since word got out about my "size" I've had no shortage of dates ( damn shallow women)

-BUT-

With most of them, all but one, they want to stop early on because of pain.

I do everything I'm supposed to, I dont go all the way in. Substantial foreplay, lube, the best positions. And I still have the girls telling me it hurts like hell after a short time.

Besides these short relationships, my one g/f of over a year took almost 6 months before we could have half way normal sex.

Anything I can do to make it easier on the women? and in turn, help out my sex life?

I'm white BTW and 20 yrs old

Okay so I was moving my truck from the barn to the house which is about a mile up a very unused backroad.

Well i got pulled over and because this truck is a farm only vehicle i didnt have proper insurance. Now I have a court summons and I'm guaranteed at least a 5 000 dollar fine. ( court is in 4 hrs from this time)

I want to join the canadian armed forces, but i've been reading that you can't with an outstanding fine. 5000 dollars will take a significant amount of time to pay off. But if I got in and was working through the military it would be almost too easy to pay the 5000.

So my question. How much will this affect my ability to join the armed forces?

Okay I was in a car accident a few months ago. it involved me in my friends car and a truck with 4 guys in it (2 were riding in the box)

here is the whole story:

Was driving down the highway and had a truck going slow infront of us. we thought we saw something move in the box, so we turned the highbeams on to see two guys mooning us from the box. they then threw a beer bottle at the car(missed). So we passed to get away from them.

while passing I tossed a half can of coke at the guys in the box and apparently missed.

Then the guys are chasing us and we speed off (3.5 maxima vs 5.0 f150) After we cant see their headlights we slowed back down to the speed limit. They caught up to us with their lights off, then proceeded to flash their highbeams at us and even bumped the back of the car.

They pulled out to come along side us and I tossed a glass pop bottle out. hitting their grille. ( saw it hit for sure) They continued to pull beside us and they hit a bump causing there truck to weave into the side of us. We moved over to hit the soft shoulder. regained control for a second then hit a rut in the gravel and it shot us back into the rear wheel of the truck.

We spun out and stopped in the ditch with no injuries. The truck flipped and went into the other ditch. nobody killed. just lots of road rash.

All occupants of the truck were drunk. Cop refused to do a breath test and let them leave.

they told the cop my bottle hit their windshield. And later when i had to give my statement the cop told me that they had evidence that the bottle broke their windshield and caused them to lose control ( there was over a minute from when i threw the bottle to them weaving)

The cop said if I admit to smashing the windshield I'll get charged with mischief, if I dont i'll get criminal negligence. Again he said they had proof the bottle smashed it.

I went for my first court appearance today and find out he LIED. I admitted the bottle smashed it out of fear of the greater charge he was hanging over my head. Not out of guilt. But I found out, they didnt recover the bottle, and the windshield was totally smashed from the roll over,

I'm not really sure how to proceed now. Yes i threw the bottle. NO it did not cause the accident. Cop just scared me into saying it did, and that if i say what they want. I'll get off easy. Now I'm facing possible jail time!

This happened in southern ontario.

Last dec. 20th ( im not a freak i just remember it was 5 days before christmas) she dumped me out of the blue for a guy i had been friends with since i was 5, I was 18 at the time. Out of anger I lashed out at the guy when he wouldnt get out of a party i was at (oops) but I felt better lol. weird thing is, my ex wasn't mad and said he should have listened to me.

She has communicated with me off and on for the last year and I've always either ignored or barely responded. but lately I've been getting 4-5 text messages a day. She wants to meet up she says? yet she is still with the guy she dumped me for.

The weirdest and most confusing, but funniest phone call Ive gotten from her was her asking me if i wanted out condoms back because they slip off him. okay? I'm not bragging our anything they were the normal ones so she told me that why? lol

I'm totally past the grieving proccess so hanging out with her wouldn't bother me. I'm just wondering what HER motives could possibly be. We went from no contact for the better part of a year to her trying to talk to me everyday. Also, I will not be trying or wanting to get back together with her. She would have to show me she has done a lot of growing up. The biggest thing she cares about in life is money. And I know she hasnt changed because i still talk to some of the friends that ended up as mutal.

BTW we dated for two years less a week.

I used to be very active but then a knee injury killed me from sports and mountain biking.

Recently I started working out to lose the very small amount of fat that I have built over 3 years of less activity.... now I'm in better shape than ever.

I've lost the little paunch i had but my hunger has been sky rocketing over the last couple weeks.

I am gaining significant definition all over following the workout program. I'm eating healthy foods.

I've been eating over 4000 calories in a day! and I'm still hungry. I drink tons of water, and milk, very little pop. I eat fast food on occasion. The majority of my meals are red meat, pork, or egg as the main part, always with grains and vegtables in large amounts.

I do not take any supplements just a daily vitamin, always have.

To put in it perspective, today I ate:

a 6 egg ham/onion/ cheese omelet with peanut butter on toast, and hour later a WHOLE BAG(750g) of noodles with cheese, and about 500ml of milk to drink. then for lunch a whole large pizza with almost everything on it. then for a snack a double big mac. Then my supper was a 1lb steak, with corn on the cob and garlic potatoes, and raw green onions. Throughout the day I always have a glass/ bottle of water in my hand. I also snacked on a large bag of grapes, and strawberry's.

I'm still losing fat and majorly packing on muscle but this is getting me worried that I am always this hungry!