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This is from my previous post. Met a bloke few months back he's 36 and lives back with parents as he's gone back to uni. We got on fab and he seemed to like me like I like him. He said when he has assignments due in he does withdraw and go ingot a shell.

I last saw him just over a month ago, so miss him heaps want to hug him. The other wk he text me saying look I get the feeling you're not into this but I assured him I wasn't put off and he said thankyou for understanding. The other wk I got worried and said to him look of you don't want to see or hear from me again just say and you won't. He asked if could call me later that eve which he did, he said I wanted to call and don't want you thinking I'm just fobbing you off, I'm so stressed and low that I'm not even bothering with friends and snappy at his parents he said its not that I don't want to see or speak to you just he's so low. So I said its ok, just let him know I was here for him if he wants a chat, he said thank you.

I messaged him last fri just asking how he was doing and he said no not today I stupidly said what's up? He said you know what's up I've already told you. So I didn't say no more next day I got an appology saying sorry if he sounded rude it wasn't his intention, I just said its ok

I messaged him new years and he said he was probs going to local for a drink so I said have a good eve and xmas he replied with you to. I then snapped and said look if you don't wanna see or hear from me again then just say. He said look I'm reeally down and I'm being honest I can't commit to any kind of relationship right now, soi said I said fine you won't here from me again and I deleted his no. I didn't mean it I snapped there is waysi can get his number again but I'm scared I'm feeling low too and this rejection has just tipped me off I didn't even spend xmas with my family and now I'm pushing people away :( I want to be there for him, I know I'm not great either but we may be able to help each other x

Met a guy few months back and we got on fab, he lives back at parents as he's gone back to uni last month he had deadlines etc and had totally changed character before he was a laugh and he so say says he was smitten with me like I was him and he was happy. Last wk or so he's been really quiet hardly hear from him he called me other day to explain and said he just can't be bothered with anyone at the moment not even friends,he say's he feels very low , stressed and depressed.

Last night I messaged him so I got funny as was feeling hurt, basically saying I'll leave him alone he was like ok and that he's sorry and isn't well. I snapped and said don't worry you won't hear from me again, then deleted his number I'm gutted and so hurt. I didn't mean that I wanted no contact just thought that's what he wanted and he didn't fight for it? I'm so worried about him and scared I'll never hear from him again, I even posted him a xmas pressie and card which he loved x

Met a guy few months back and we got on fab, he lives back at parents as he's gone back to uni last month he had deadlines etc and had totally changed character before he was a laugh and he so say says he was smitten with me like I was him and he was happy. Last wk or so he's been really quiet hardly hear from him he called me other day to explain and said he just can't be bothered with anyone at the moment not even friends.

Last night I messaged him so I got funny as was feeling hurt, basically saying I'll leave him alone he was like ok and that he's sorry and isn't well. I snapped and said don't worry you won't hear from me again, then deleted his number I'm gutted and so hurt. I didn't mean that I wanted no contact just thought that's what he wanted and he didn't fight for it? I'm so worried about him and scared I'll never hear from him again, I even posted him a xmas pressie and card which he loved x

Met a lovely guy few months back got on fab, he's in uni and stressing (so he says) over it, I havent seen him for a few wks now and he's gone quiet on me. I messagd him over wknd saying that if he doesnt want me to contact again I won't but he said no I dont want that, I dont know what to do?

I'm 38 and he's 36 he lives back with parents as he has gone back to uni to do sport as he want's to be a PE teacher. Were in touch every day, but he's so stressed with assignments etc that i havent seen him. He asked me other week that he felt i wasnt into this, but i said im fine and i understand that this is important.

Shall i hold out till he's done with all this uni or just end things now?

I have had this for abou 5 yrs now and haas got slightly bigger. I have a few times accidently ripped it while washing face and it bleeds like hell and takes ages to stop, then once it clots again it just fills back up, I can feel a small lump inside my mouth.

I have been to doctors and they say there is nothing to worry about, even though a lot of the time its sore, they say if I want it removed it will make a huge scar and will cost as this is a cosmetic. I am so paranoid about it being on my face its actually starting to effect me. If anyone has simular or can help I'd much appreciate it.

we are not on the internet, can you copy cds to the ipod without having internet access?

I haave been told I have IBS been on all sorts of drinks, tablets but nothing seems to help. I feel bloated and uncomfy all the time and around my back and tummy area I hurt at times. This has been going on for ages bow and I believe stress doesn't help so I am in a no win situation as this is maiking me stressed! I don't go out and I feel fat and ugly x

I'm 5 "2" petit build but not skinny. I am around a 34 D and bigger on the hips, I get so confued and paranoid that I mam massive compared to many other people and think I am huge. Most of my clothes are a size 8 10 but when it comes to the measurments i should be a size 12/14 i'm so confused some things fit me in an 8 and other times i dont. My friend is a 14 and she is much bigger than me so how can i be a size 14? Does anyone else get this problem ?

I am going to court on wednesday as my bank are taking me to court for a loan I owe, I have been paying them £26 a month through a dept management plan and i havent missed one payment with them. But they are still wanting to put the charging order on. I am so worried that they may force me to sell my home, can anyone advise me please and hopefully put my mind at ease.

I owe £8175, and I am on a dept management plan paying £26 per month I havent missed one payment for a year, but they are now taking me to court next month to get a charging order on my property. I am so worried about all of this and it is now making me ill. I was made redundant in January and I am now temping but I am still contiuing to make my payments to the DMP. I have spoken to them and they say that I don't need to worry and they cannot make me sell my property. But still this is still causing me so much stress at the mo. If anyone can help with this or any information i'd be greatfull and hopefully finally put at ease

Been with my fella for nearly two years now get on fab have a great time together, his family thinks the world of me and my family do of him. Silly thing has happened a year ago he went to a concert with a friend he told me a friend of his had a spare ticket and his wife couldnt make it so asked him if he would like to go, so he did and they stayed over the night etc.

Friday just gone we went to his local for a few drinks and chill like we normaly do i know most there and get on with everyone really well. A few female friends came in and came to the bar two of them I know to have a chat to and get on well with, one of them i see in there lots but not to speak to.

Well it came that we all ended up sitting together having a laugh etc, my other half being his usual silly self, when this girl said about the concert and I was like oh you went with her??? he said well yeah we did, i was instantly upset as I looked a fool and he had lied about it. I went outside to cool off etc and her friend came out to see how I was, well in this time the girl had scarpered pretty quickly and left the pub.

I asked him out right if anything happened with her and if it did tell me now and i'll be gone for good and also does he want to be with me or not, he swore to me that nothing happened and that he loves me and wants to be with me! i knopw he has lied but this girl was defo going out of her way to make trouble, she was even boasting about having an affair with a married man and wanted his wife to find out which I took a dislike to her straight away. I work with someone that knows her and says she is a trouble maker and is really weird so not to take notice. But what upsets me is that he lied and why if so innocent

My fella's birthday in September been with him over a year now and wanna do something nice but without costing a fortune, he loves going to his local pub and they are a great bunch of people there, so was thiking is to get the pub to do a nice party for him there, but obviously wanna do somehing else for him aswell. I've booked the week off for his birthday aswell, any idea's I would be great full to hear xx

Been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and things are going great, we are going to Italy Wednesday with his mum, step dad and another couple which ive never met, his parents have a house out there and this is my treat for my birthday. I've been thinking about it for a long time and i'm thinking of asking him to move in with me while were away. At present he is living with his sister he's been there for about 3 years now, I'm defo not about to tie him down or anything like that he does his own thing as well and i don't want that to change and he knows that anyway.

Whats your thoughts is it too soon to ask I feel it could be good for us, but i am also scared too, naturally!!! I only have a one bed apartment but its defo big enough for us.

Hi been with my fella for nearly a year now and everything is great between us actually getting stronger by the day.

He was with someone for a long time but she ripped him off money wise and he is now living at his sister and brother in laws for the last two yrs or more.

Everyone has told me how nasty she was with him, he didn’t find it hard to leave her but he brought up her daughter from 6 mnths old but he chose to keep away for the sake of the little girl, but I know he miss’s her and I totally understand that.

A few months ago I had a few texts we think from his ex but not sure, basically claiming there were together and for me to leave him alone!! He has assured me nothing is going on and never will be he hates her. Even his family have assured me of how nasty she was to him and treated him nasty. I have seen her about and she is totally opposite to him he’s 5ft 9 she is 6ft 5 really big girl so tatal mismatch! But anyway he and his family have been totally on my side about these text messages and says I have nothing to worry about and if police want a character reference on her they will. My only problem is I seem to have is that I am threatened by her and I think I’m no good for him etc ive just got it into my head and it is me that has got obsessed with her and I feel threatened by her am I silly to feel like this, as me and him are great even said the L word which is lovely and all going at a nice pace x

been with my boyfriend nearly 9 months now and at the wknd his sister and brother in law were telling me that they think the world of me and so does my boyfriend, we've never said the I love you words yet although i do feel it but im scared to say it!

dont wanna scare him and all, but i think the world of him big time. His sister was saying just take things slow he has alot on his mind due to his work etc, nothing about me he's happy.

Im also happy with the way things are at the mo we get on fab and so look forward to seeing each other when we do x

Hi been with my boyfriend since April time does anyone have any idea's of xmas presents? Dont wanna go over board, but also don't want to get rubbish.

Was thinking of a digital camera as i know he hasnt one and his ex took his any idea please ??

Been with my fella now for a while met in April and been together since, he was with someone for 7 years helped bring up her daughter but they split about 2 years ago.

I do get slightly para about that for some reason (silly I know) but i think I always do feel scared that he may go back to her.

We are taking things slow i see him about twice a week although i would love to see him more I would never pressure that!! he has his own building business and works on his own mainly so i know he is very very busy.

He lives with his sister and brother in law also as his ex ripped him off and he lost everything!! He has met my parents I was in a show few months ago and he went to my parents for a meal at there's before the show which i thought was lovely. I went last week with him to meet his dad and his partner last wknd with his sister and family his dad runs a pub and they put us all up for the evening and made me feel very very welcome.

They have also asked me to jain them on xmas day aswell. Does this all sound like this is going all well and im just being silly and para about things and past!!