HEY K

He is 4 he has not seen her much in 4 years. She is mean to me and nasty. Very evil and Manipulates. So I decided to stay well clear. She never made an effort to see our son. So she came over day because my father in law insisted we invite her. So we did. My son was shy and scared of her and called a witch. That kicked off a big fight. She said I told him to call her a witch. He asked me why is that lady mean to you mummy is she a witch? I said yes. Now he calls her a witch. Everyone is pissed off with me. She is a scary and dangerous women. I don't want my kids near her. She steals, has multiple men and is fashion make up obsessed,,,,what ya ll think? Xx

Didn't say thank you for dinner. Just ate took plate out and said shall I wash it.

She make conversation. We haven't spoken for 3 years cos she has made no effort for our baby. So we decided to distance ourselves. But now the Inlaws want us all united. Hooray. So I agreed to the dinner. I cooked and my m. I . L helped clean up.

The sil was grumpy and ill mannered didn't talk. All night for 3 hours just played with her iPhone all night.

My hubby told me she swore at me outside and said to him, why did she make our mum wash up all the dishes.

My sil is being forced into my house in next day or so for dinner by my Inlaws. We don't talk. She is selfish 27 year old women acts like 15!shouts swears loves men, alcohol, steals from shop, beauty items, make up. Loves dressing up. Lies a lot. Very loud. And wears a lot of make up. And hasn't spoken to me in 4 years. Why should I say yes all is ok now? She offended me. I will stand my ground right?

He will be four in august due to start primary school 9-3 full time. He can't go to the toilet himself need help with pants and wiping himself.

He doesn't usually eat or drink in unfamiliar places.

Needs mummy a lot.

I could wait til following year but he won't get same school, maybe a more crappy school further away.

What you think mums

My son will be 4 this august and is expected to start primary school in September, at 4years and 1 month.

He has been allocated a good school. He is very young and never been away from me he will struggle. He is likely to be very distressed. He won't eat or drink. He will cry a lot.

So I want to send him the following year which by law I can do.

But......the council have said if I do that he will have to go to any school where there is a place in year 1, unlikely he will get into one of the better schools.

I'm very confused, and would feel bad sending my son to school knowing he is upset and crying for me.

And I would hate to send him to crappy school miles away the following year.

So do I send him now and see him distressed for a while but he gets into a good school close by to my home...or do I wait till he is better on the toilet more confident and happy to start school. To a school further away and not as good or popular.

Some good advice please, be sensible.

Thanks in advance

My son will be 4 this august and is expected to start primary school in September, at 4years and 1 month.

He has been allocated a good school. He is very young and never been away from me he will struggle. He is likely to be very distressed. He won't eat or drink. He will cry a lot.

He is an only child, no friends, no cousins, he only really sees me his dad and his nan. He is a quiet boy, quite clingy to me. The whole big school thing would consume him , he is too young and very introverted. He won't eat or drink for 6 hours. I'm worried.

So I want to send him the following year which by law I can do.

But......the council have said if I do that he will have to go to any school where there is a place in year 1, unlikely he will get into one of the better schools.

I'm very confused, and would feel bad sending my son to school knowing he is upset and crying for me.

And I would hate to send him to crappy school miles away the following year.

And to top it off....we moved to our house to get our son into a good school....

Some good advice please

Thanks in advance

X

My son will be 4 this august and is expected to start primary school in September, at 4years and 1 month.

He has been allocated a good school. He is very young and never been away from me he will struggle. He is likely to be very distressed. He won't eat or drink. He will cry a lot.

So I want to send him the following year which by law I can do.

But......the council have said if I do that he will have to go to any school where there is a place in year 1, unlikely he will get into one of the better schools.

I'm very confused, and would feel bad sending my son to school knowing he is upset and crying for me.

And I would hate to send him to crappy school miles away the following year.

Some good advice please, be sensible.

Thanks in advance

X

Im going to a wedding in easter sunday on hubby side. Its a long occasion all day. I have agrees to do half day as we have a toddler baby.

my mum wanted to my son on sunday. But she cant now. She is angry with me for foing to the wedding. Thinks im risking my son is some way

I know she will miss him. She wanted to c him. She selsom gets days ofd work. N wanted to treat him for easter.

She sees him everyday after work. For an hour but wanyed quality time with him. Its just that she is swearing at me. Calling me a loser. Why

He ia desperate. ..and so keen to attend a distant relatives wedding. I said no..as its 10am to midnight and we have a.toddler. but hubby said it me. I said no the baby is in the way. Get a a sitter. He said no cos his mum n dad wamt their grand son there to show off

My hubbys distant uncles daughter....lol....is getting married. He wants to go. Its quite far and a long day. We have a three year old boy. He cant sit still for an hour max.

wedding starts 10am..finish3pm gap til 7pm for party. We r told guest's have to hang around for 3/4hours till party starts . My hubby is bei g aggressive and nasty to me. Saying we ahould go. I cant wait in a bar for 4 hours with a toddler. Its torture for the child and me. Holding the crying child. Hubby being funny...he wants to go because his mum n dad want tk go. He wants to take them. To please them. What u think....thanks

So....I work mon to fri in an office job, doing Admin 50hours a week. Pay is ok. But in order to be comfortable I also work sat and sun for an extra little in a shop. Here's the thing:

I am 54 I have to retire at my admin job by 62. But the retail/shop work they retire people at 65. I need to work until 65 as I have rent to pay, no partner and no family and no support. So I need to work till my very last day.

I have been offered a full time job at the shop (yesterday) , I will be £300 short a month as I will be working only one job and lower.

I could manage on less money by cutting but it's a big change. And a long term move.

What would you do.?

Sensible answers please.

Howdy, I have a dilemma. I work mon to fri in an office job, doing Admin 50hours a week. Pay is ok. But in order to be comfortable I also work sat and sun for an extra little in a shop. Here's the thing:

I am 54 I have to retire at my admin job by 62. But the retail/shop work they retire people at 65. I need to work until 65 as I have rent to pay, no partner and no family and no support. So I need to work till my very last day.

I have been offered a full time job at the shop (yesterday) , I will be £300 short a month as I will be working only one job and lower.

I could manage on less money by cutting but it's a big change. And a long term move.

What would you do.?

Sensible answers please.

Howdy, I have a dilemma. I work mon to fri in an office job, doing Admin 50hours a week. Pay is ok. But in order to be comfortable I also work sat and sun for an extra little in a shop. Here's the thing:

I am 54 I have to retire at my admin job by 62. But the retail/shop work they retire people at 65. I need to work until 65 as I have rent to pay, no partner and no family and no support. So I need to work till my very last day.

I have been offered a full time job at the shop (yesterday) , I will be £300 short a month as I will be working only one job and lower.

I could manage on less money by cutting but it's a big change. And a long term move.

What would you do.?

Sensible answers please.

Whats the point? Benefit?

My mother says noooo dont do it. I have.one. he is 3 now, I get feelings like strange inner maternal instinct to have a 2nd. I get all sad n soppy. Mum says no its hard work, n j may have a c section again then who will look after my 3 year old wen im in hospital. My hubby is not hand on and helpful more hands off and hindrance. He wants a second but my mum does not.

so its 5pm sat, I just got in with my 3 year old son from a trip to the park. n headed home for dinner. my bro who is 30 pops in to see us as usual on sat, and my mum comes in too by 5.30 to c uus. all normal. my mum comes everyday n helps out too.

my son is eating n then jumps up n wants to go n sit on the other side of table near my mum. the chair is squashed in he cant sit there able so unaccessible, its says, "gosh look at this place, its a mess, couldn't u move the table gosh" to me . I got fed up n said no I couldn't I cant move the table every time he decides to jump off , I cant keep moving it around after him for break lunchn dinner,,..she said "oh I don't care". I said u don't care about what? my son.?

then...big mouth bro jumps in nn yells at me...goes nuts n mad shouting..my son is like watching us. I didn't say anything just let him shout. he said im old women (im 35 he is31) n im making a fool of myself. by asking my mum if she doesn't care about my son. he swore at me..f...g n slammed the door n pissed off. now my mum got big **** hump with me. all I wanna do is make sure my son ate proper.he sits n eats most times....is it me?

I feel a severe depression coming coming on. I feel a pain in my chest like heavy pain.

My husband is not having much sex with me,it's once very 3/4 weeks.

We are. Oth 35 and married with our one child.

Have tried blowing him, he says no. Tried sexy underwear...nope.

I don't want to be like a whore and keep trying I want him to want me, a desire.

I'm a stay at home mum, doI don't look hot 24/7 I have a toddler. I try at times. Still nothing more than once a month. He never kisses me either? On the. Mouth. And I love French kissing. He doesn't . It's in and out for him. Why.

Hi I'd like to know what yall think. I'm a married 35 year old women. A stay at home mom. Have a three year old son. My hubby works 6 days a week to keep us afloat.

He works hard. As do I at home , with our son.

So he doesn't sleep with me. Comes to bed much later than me. Doesn't initiate sex. Doesn't hint or flirt. Doesn't like it when I try and touch his penis or rub it. He says he is tired. I asked what's up, he just said oh no , not now the mood not right. But my mood is right. I know he is tired. I cook clean and get our son to bed by the time he comes home. He doesn't want much sex. One time in a month maybe he will just put it in wham am thank you mam. He is not cheating I keep a track of stuff and him. I'm not as hot as I used to be. But can still look ok. Why this rejection.