jade

My boyfriend and I have known each other for about 9 years and we are now living together. We had a long break, He joined the army got married and now has 3 kids and I have none. The kids mom left her 2 and 4 year old they live with us and he has another in a different state that he needs to get custody of the mom is a tramp.

Either way I came to help him with the boys (one has cp). I have asked him when he plans to marry me and he says 27 is my age to get married, I am now 24. Considering i take care of his kids, deal with his military lifestyle and have known him (I was his first love) for so long I think it's unfair for me to have to wait to marry him when he married the ex wife just because she got pregnant after he slept with her once. What more can I do to show him that I'm ready now?

He holds it against me that I stayed out overnight a couple months ago and that is his main excuse for not marrying me now, sounds like bs to me.

I was wondering if any women that were ttc found themselves to be fertile after ending a birth control regimen? I have not been able to get pregnant and I was put on nuvaring to regulate my periods. I am wondering if this has actually helped anybody. Thanks!

We moved to a new location and recently his ex wife got mail sent to our house. Considering she never even lived in this state to my knowledge it's odd that she got mail here. Maybe there's another reason for it besides them being married. But he has never presented proof of the divorce, and he got mad when i asked him too. Hmmmm?

I was told that california never accepts a transfer by my p.o. i am a first time offender and shouldn't have got in trouble in the first place. Either way I have a lease in ca. for my town home and I just got word that my old job is giving me unemployment benefits in ca. which I will need to pay all of these fines. I've been calling my p.o to talk to her about it but she never answers the phone. Is there a higher authority to get the ball rolling on the transfer? I talked to her supervisor and he told me to wait to make sure their scanner worked so my p.o could send the paper work but that was weeks ago. What's the deal with these people? I'm in texas by the way. eeeewww

If so how long did it take and what states? Also did you have any special circumstances to help the transfer?