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Strangers staring at me and acting weird

Hi :) Im 14 and im name is Leah... This year Idk if its due to my social anxiety but a lot of strangers ( mostly male )are weird with me and stare at me. I dont think its because im pretty because im really not ( I have dark brown curly messy hair, green eyes, freckles, im a little pale and im really tall) but it does get weird and embarassing. Here are some examples

- A guy about 16 staring at me and smiling at me in line to pay for something

- A guy in class staring at me all the time and onced blinked at me

- A guy in school comming up to me saying " whatsup baby girl "

- A group of guys in school turning their heads while I was walking through the door

- A male server giving me free stuff at a restaurant and when I come he always picks our table ( even if another server is in charge,he tells him that will tak charge of my table )

- A female server being so nice to me while being rude to all the other customers

- A guy at school turning around in the hallways to stare at me ( only happened once )

- a total of 7 guys at school staring at me ( idk if in a good way )

Am I weird :( why is this happening ? its very uncomfortable for me

Hi ^-^ My name is Leah and im 14 years old and well this year I had this feeling, but everytime it gets worse. I have an amazing family and life, but this is causing me a lot of pain lately. All my life, I've always been a loner, I never fit in. I have always been a muchmore mature erson compared to other people my age, at least thats what people tell me. I never remember having many friends but I have a few good ones :). Anyways, this year things got worse. I began to feel really anxious in places where a lot of pople where, and began to feel ashamed of myself. At school, I would always sit alone and even though I had a few friends, felt more alone than ever. A lot of guys actually have looked interested in me ( the first year it happens ) but I feel it was just a way to make fun of me. Everytime I look in the mirror I feel ashamed of myself, and feel ugly. When I walk in the streets I feel like everyone stares at me, though many strangers smile at me. My shyness and anxiety keeps me away from my dreams and what I can achieve. But the thing that bothers me the most is now feeling ashamed of myself, I feel weird and not normal. Have you ever felt this way ? How can I overcome it ?

Hey guys :) well im in middle school, and a few weeks ago I noticed this boy that just makes excuses to talk to me all the time, and seems to like me... Here are some things he does to me :D i dont know if they are signs or not

1: He asks me stupid things like why is my phone brightness so low and stuff like that, and when he asked me he leans towards me

2: I often catch him looking at me, not a lot, but everyday at least twice

3: At least when im near, he exagerates his laughs and make funny things in front of me with a lot of noise

4: One time when I was getting up to clean up my stuff, he was there and seemed confused and ordered everything badly, and looked up at me a lot while he was cleaning

5: One time when the teacher was asking if he did something ( she was kind of punishing him) I was looking and he just couldnt look back at the teacher ( she was besides me ) and he was blushing a lot

6 : He talked to 2 of my friends in front of me, I think to make me jealuse... Since my two friends bearly talk english

7: One time he approched me at lunch and thanked me for a work i helped him with, but he was a bit blushing and said it very politly and sweetly, and I think he wanted to sit with me but I was in a rush

Does he like me ? What do you think ?

Well I'm in middle school , and lately I think a boy just talks to me a lot. He always compliments me on my work, he asks me about stupid little things like why do I have my phone light so low and things like that, and even one time talked to my 2 freinds in fron of me ( is that a sign ?). A month ago or a bit more he aproched me at lumch and thanked me for a work I helped him on, he kind of seemed nervous but he said it very politly and very nicely. Now he only looks at me, I often catch him looking at me

Well I'm in middle school , and lately I think a boy just talks to me a lot. He always compliments me on my work, he asks me about stupid little things like why do I have my phone light so low and things like that, and even one time talked to my 2 freinds in fron of me ( is that a sign ?). A few days ago he aproched me at lumch and thanked me for a work I helped him on, he kind of seemed nervous but he said it very politly and very nicely. And I saw him looking at me some times . Does my crush like me ?

Phisicly ( im 14 )

- I have green eyes

- very light skin

- Curly dark brown hair

- Freckles

- My height is 1:70

- I have curvy hips

- I have an average weight ( not fat but not skinny )

- I dont have skinny legs, they are more curvy

Personality

- Im very patient

- Im very very shy :( but once I get to know you, im fun

- I am very positive

- I love animals

- I am vegan

- I am a good student

- I am very polite

- I am a bit reserved when it comes to socializing :( As I said im am really shy

- I like harry potter :3

- I love drawing

- I love my family

- I am very peacful ( I rarely get mad )

- I am good hearted :) when i can help I will

- I believe in that we are in this world to help others and illuminate others lifes

Answer the two questions for best answer !

I do not know him very well, I just have a design class with him. We are in middle school

I dont know him very well, we only have one class together.

We are in middle school, and I only share 1 class wwith him. I do not know him very well. What is a casual way to ask him for his phone number ?

I want to ask my crush to sit eith me at lunch, im 14. Is there something wrong with this ?

Phisicly ( I am 14 )

- Brown dark curly hair

- Green-Tanish eyes

- Freckles

- Average body ( not fat but not skinny )

- Curvy hips

- Not skinny legs, more chubby

Personality

- im vegan

- I love animals

- Im shy, but when you get to know me im very relaxed and fun :)

- I like drawing

- I play tennis

- I am a good student

- I love my family

- I am really peacful ( I rarely get mad )

Phisicly ( I am 14 )

- Brown dark curly hair

- Green-Tanish eyes

- Freckles

- Average body ( not fat but not skinny )

- Curvy hips

- Not skinny legs, more chubby

Personality

- im vegan

- I love animals

- Im shy, but when you get to know me im very relaxed and fun :)

- I like drawing

- I play tennis

- I am a good student

- I love my family

- I am really peacful ( I rarely get mad )

I have dark brown curly hair

I have freckles

I have green eyes

I am not fat but not skinny, just in between

My skin is very white

And My eyebrows are not shaved but do not have hairs in between

But I feel really really ugly :( It affects my autoestim

Im 14

Im very very shy around guys ( im a girl ), With girls im totally fine bit around guys im just too shy. I immediatly become shy when a guy aproches, im in middle school. How can I deal with this ? what can I do ?

Well I'm in middle school , and lately I think a boy just talks to me a lot. He always compliments me on my work, he asks me about stupid little things like why do I have my phone light so low and things like that, and even one time talked to my 2 freinds in fron of me ( is that a sign ?). A few days ago he aproched me at lumch and thanked me for a work I helped him on, he kind of seemed nervous but he said it very politly and very nicely. But in class he never looks at me

:( Does this boy like me ?

Well im 14 and I have a lot of freckles in my face and feel kind of ashamed of it, I have green eyes, light skin, dark brown curly hair, My height is 1:75. Do you think freckles are nice in me ?