Why does he look at other girls???
Is it natural for a guy to look at other girls, when you are with him? We have been together for three years. Is he just curious? Should I be concerned?
Is it natural for a guy to look at other girls, when you are with him? We have been together for three years. Is he just curious? Should I be concerned?
darkening_hope
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For some reason, men have this insatiable need to look at women. They can control it, but it's difficult.
Most of the time, they see nothing wrong with just, "looking", since it's not like they're literally doing anything wrong.
Just explain to him that it makes you feel insecure and you'd appreciate it if he didn't make it so obvious.
friend_indeed
It is very natural for a guy to look at other girls, its good that he do that when you're with him it means he is not hiding anything from you, He can do that anytime when you're not around .God gave us eyes to see things, so you shouldnt be concern at all, he is just blessed to have an eyesight to see , in his heart and in his mind you are probably the only one for him. Dont worry Its a normal Human behaviour.
sunshine
I have been with my guy for 3 years too. he looks at other women too.Look it's just in their nature ok. But you HAVE to make it clear that you know he's going to do it, but when he's with you he has to be more respectful!!!!! If he can't do that then you may need to rethink your relationship.
It's only natural for all people to look or check out other people but when it's done disrespectfully then there's a problem. I hope you can get him in his place.
Stephanie
Well if he is being very obvious about looking at these other girls then that can cause you to feel inadequate ... so if this bothers you then just ask him to be a bit more discreet ..
Its normal for them to look ... woman are beautiful creatures .. and with the warm weather comes less clothing .. He is going to look!! Cut him a break he is only human!!
Now if he starts touching then you bring out the craws and give him ****!!
charlie88
It is natural for everyone to look! U must look yeh? Not in a fancy way but if you see a good lookin lad you will just have a quick look? Im engaged and i catch my fiance lookin but at the end of the day its only lookin not touching so whats there to be affraid of? It is also upsetting knowing he is lookin at other girls because the way i think of it is why does he need to look if he's got me! Look at other blokes when your with your boyfriend and see how he reacts with you doing it?!! Bitchy i know but it might make him see how much it hurts! xx