Why does he look at other girls???

For some reason, men have this insatiable need to look at women. They can control it, but it's difficult.

Most of the time, they see nothing wrong with just, "looking", since it's not like they're literally doing anything wrong.

Just explain to him that it makes you feel insecure and you'd appreciate it if he didn't make it so obvious.

It is very natural for a guy to look at other girls, its good that he do that when you're with him it means he is not hiding anything from you, He can do that anytime when you're not around .God gave us eyes to see things, so you shouldnt be concern at all, he is just blessed to have an eyesight to see , in his heart and in his mind you are probably the only one for him. Dont worry Its a normal Human behaviour.

I have been with my guy for 3 years too. he looks at other women too.Look it's just in their nature ok. But you HAVE to make it clear that you know he's going to do it, but when he's with you he has to be more respectful!!!!! If he can't do that then you may need to rethink your relationship.

It's only natural for all people to look or check out other people but when it's done disrespectfully then there's a problem. I hope you can get him in his place.

Well if he is being very obvious about looking at these other girls then that can cause you to feel inadequate ... so if this bothers you then just ask him to be a bit more discreet ..

Its normal for them to look ... woman are beautiful creatures .. and with the warm weather comes less clothing .. He is going to look!! Cut him a break he is only human!!

Now if he starts touching then you bring out the craws and give him ****!!

It is natural for everyone to look! U must look yeh? Not in a fancy way but if you see a good lookin lad you will just have a quick look? Im engaged and i catch my fiance lookin but at the end of the day its only lookin not touching so whats there to be affraid of? It is also upsetting knowing he is lookin at other girls because the way i think of it is why does he need to look if he's got me! Look at other blokes when your with your boyfriend and see how he reacts with you doing it?!! Bitchy i know but it might make him see how much it hurts! xx

perfectly normal!

And despite the large number of posters....look how few people mentioned that girls look at guys too! Come on, be honest....you do.

You may be less obvious, but you do. Personally, I don't mind , and say that as long as you look, i can look, and as long as you are both willing to say, "Hey, that guy/girl is really hot" than why worry. It is when you stop hearing and noticing normal human behavior that you have to worry

it is normal for guys to look at other girls, especially if the girl is attractive.. but that doesn't mean that he is interested in that girl.. guys are visually stimulated.. pretty girls get their attention, but basically that's it.. you have been together for quite some time already, and i'm sure that there's something in you that he loves more than any other good looking or sexy girl who passes by.. it's also normal for us girls to feel insecure everytime we see our guy stare at other girls.. it's just a matter giving full trust to your guy.. it would also help if you exert effort to keep his attention to you.. dress up when you go out..

Acutally your the only one he should be looking at. Your the one that he should cater too. Your the one that he should honor and love only. Your the one and only remember that and if you have someone that thinks other than what I just wrote...drop him.

If you were my girl I would treat you like a princess and honor like a Queen and that is what makes a woman happy in relations. She must be the number one LOOK in his life.

Yes it is. I do it. but not in the same way. When I look at other girls i think about how glade I'm with my gf and how hot and great she is. if Ur guy truly loves u then don't be worried

If he's looking at other girls then yes you should be concerned.