What says Christmas better than a fifth of vodka???

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"Happy Holidays" translates as a half-gallon....Show more

Maybe what you want to hear is in the last paragraph I have written but please read the rest of what I have written too. This woman has kicked him into touch. (she is in control) She has someone else (an added attraction to him he wants it all) He has not responded to her e mail. he is thinking or licking his wounded pride. Ok so after all of the questions.....time to make up YOUR own mind. No one here can accurately predict what he will do in the future and what he really felt for the woman. So you either let the whole thing drop and see what happens as in does he find another. This sadly means you will work yourself up looking and worrying because You are not going to believe him whatever he says. Or you break free and start live and build a life. Or you go counselling with him........or without him and work through it there. You say you can cope if he loved her....I don't think you are coping with this fact and keep posting to get the answer you think you want which is stay with him he loves you. How can anyone out there in cyber know this. If you believe it then make the effort to trust and believe him. He is weak and confused right now and he is certainly in lust.(or imagined love) So maybe if you want to show him another side to you.....get inventive in the boudoir once you him back in harness. I don't know what you will do long term but please think what is best for you. Ok all of that said I did work at a marriage after such adiscovery.......I had him sit down and write her a letter in front of me......I made sure he hurt her. She was the intruder. The other woman in your senario is certainly not squeaky clean in this and has encouraged him recently to communicate by not blanking him. Tell him you need a grand gesture of re assurance or you walk. That's what I did. We are ok now but he knows now I would tolerate nothing else. She is history and was in the end humiliated. AND I am very certain I would not stay a moment to listen if it repeted....Show more

More vodka & a whole lot of friends to share it with!!! Cheers & a Merry Christmas to you, sweetie! :o)...Show more

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say a whole case!...Show more

Amazing. You just answered my q with your q the same time I was typing my q.

Told ya I need a drink......Show more