My youngest seems to really go off the deep end badly when the two of them are together, and it can be over something very minor...and it's always when they have had a few drinks...not drunk, but a few. This is much deeper than just being mad and I've having a hard time getting them to open up. Any help or ideas would be appreciated.
Christina
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How long has this been going on? It could be something that happened to them recently or even when they were a lot younger. They may only seem to want to fight about what it is when they are relaxed enough (after a few drinks). It may be something they would NEVER talk to their mother about....so personally I think you should find someone for them to talk to (NOT A DR...no) but maybe a family friend...or perhaps a friend of theirs. ...If not, try to talk to one of them at a time.
I hope you find something out!
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Suggest they need counseling from that they will be motivated to go to aa classes eventually one of the other if not both will brake that problem through realization the better person will quit there drinking in order to change for the good remember you got to bring this up to both of them often if you feel you are getting through one of them focus on that one a little more when it comes to change. because you may help make that person a better person without alcahol.
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Mine fight when bored. If some topic of interest, activity like cooking, or teaching them something could be snuck in, you'll see this go down. keep it moving, maybe they've been neglected and don't have a feeling that they are interesting enough to take on pursuits of thier own.
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try to find somthing they have incommon with each other
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