What are break up exceptions?

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If you find out your girlfriend/boyfriend went to strip clubs in vegas, signed up for multiple online dating networks, communicated with old girlfriends/boyfriends (flirting, asking to set him/her up with other people) while you were on a break, would you be upset? Consider this hypothetical scenario- long term realtionship (4 yrs) with a couple breaks in between. Boyfriend/Girlfriend made it seem to you that they were miserable with out you and begged you to give them another opporutunity, but only to find out later this was their behavior while on the "break". Would you find that hypocritical or totally justifiable? Also, you on the other hand HAS been miserable during your break up times.

Thanks!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A break. I love this one. A break... You mean you were broke up? No commitments involved with a break / break-up. On a "break" anything goes. You can't have you cake to eat at your convenience by turning the relationship on and off like a switch. People aren't something to put on a string or collect on a shelf. People are not bragging rights, or status points, or power pawns.

Anonymous · Answer

If you two were together when he did this, for sure.

But since you were on a break, this makes it a little more difficult.  Did he /she go through with any sexual relations while on the break?  Like if you two are on a break, then you gotta understand, they can do stuff with other people.  Cause technically, you two aren't together right now.

Christina · Answer

If i were on a so called "break" from a relationship, i would just live life as it is, and not do any of the above, i would end it

sin · Answer

all of the above would be reasons for TERMINATION hahaha in other words i would DUMP HIS ***! i would never put up with that ****. when a man loves you he is faithful and honest and committed and does not sneak around behind your back.

realangst · Answer

no matter what you do (LEAVE HIM!) he's still gonna believe that it was ok because you were on a break.  guys are like that for some reason.

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