How do I gt my daughter to want to spend time with me?
My wife and I divorced 6 years ago. At the time I was on active duty in the US Navy and deployed during the divorce and custody proceedings. Because I was not there to defend myself, the judge granted my ex with supervised visitation in the children's city only. Fast forward over the next few years, fighting with the ex to have mods done to the visitation schedule, deployments, etc. and actually getting one summer with my children while still on active duty. That summer was 4 years ago. The next summer I gave up my visitation because I was scheduled to leave active duty about the time the girls would have gotten to my location and I was worried that I would not have a place to live. I didn't want to put them in harms way. The next summer I was set up and settled with appropriate living conditions for them to stay with me. That brings us to this summer. I again have a safe secure place for them and have my visitation with them. Now to the meat, my youngest daughter has fought tooth and nail coming for visitation during the summer every single time that I have had the opportunity. While she is here, she spends most of her time moping and miserable and doing her best to make everyone around her miserable. I am in therapy with her to work out any issues she has with me(I know I wasn't around a lot during her first 9 years, but I did my best), but things have gotten so bad that I am considering not having her out for visitation again. I just want to be a part of my daughter's life. What can I do?