When my husband and I were dating, I found his porn collection on the computer, it was massive. I told him I accidentally found it and laughed, but he was embarrassed. I don't know if he is embarrassed, or hides it...but he denies it. Is it normal for a married man to look at porn still? Does it mean anything to them, do they get feelings? Or do they just need to do it sometimes, as just a quick meaningless physical fix?
RK072011-04-03T20:46:32Z
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Yes, it's perfectly normal. It often means nothing, so don't worry.
Unfortunately, Sometimes even more than when they are single. This can be caused by many different reasons. Such as having a stale relationship, or dissatisfaction with the spouses performance and so on. In some cases, A married couple indulges in porn to spice up their sexual arousal. All in all, it's just a cheap thrill to most. There usually are no meaningful feelings involved. But... If it is done excessively, there maybe a deeper issue.
Everyone watches porn and they're lying out of shame (abusive religious upbringing) if they claim otherwise. It's funny how the ones who deny it are the ones who download it the most and have the creepiest fetishes! Just do some research about the bible belt and islamic countries, lmao. Porn is just entertainment really and I don't see why it's such a big deal as long as it's not an addiction. It's not cheating and people need to get over it already.
Is it normal for a married man to look at porn still? -Yes. Married women do as well.
Does it mean anything to them, do they get feelings? -Feelings? Yes, they all madly in love with the deep throat girls and want to have their children. No, they get erections, not feelings.
Or do they just need to do it sometimes, as just a quick meaningless physical fix? -MASTURBATION. Nothing more.
Men, married or single, look at porn to compensate for insufficient quantity and quality in their sex lives. So whether a married man looks at porn depends on his wife.