Do most married men look at Internet Porn?

Your husband is in denial and making excuses.

My husband looks at internet porn. So do I. No biggie. We have a healthy sex life. We would both like it more but sometimes we would like sleep instead. (we have a 3 year old and both work odd hours)

Sometimes you do it for yourself because your spouse is not there. But if your spouse is in the other room and you are on the internet then you have issues.

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Questions you should ask yourself:

Why does it bother you that he spends time looking at porn?

Do you come on to him? Flirt with him? Try to get him aroused?

Have you lost interest in sex? In general or with your husband?

Do you wanna have sex with him?

I think most men look at porn online. Married or not. I believe you were wrong in telling him he is addicted to it. Try making suggestions. Try new things in bed. I hope this doesn't sound cold-hearted, I apologize if it does, but I have no other way to say it. Try giving him more sex. Even if you just lay there and touch his back, neck and arms while he does the work. It's good to be that close to your spouse.

I don't mean to be rude, but the problem might not be him. You might have a low sex drive due to stress, age, weight, being tired, or other health problems. Men and women may have different sex drives, but 2-3 hours seems to be a bit much.

One thing I will give you husband, better him watch porn and jerk himself off than have someone else do it for him. I wanted sex more than my spouse (*4-6 times in a day*), so I went out and found it. Not a good choice on my part. Now, if I wanna "do it" and he doesn't, I go to the bedroom and pleasure myself. Same goes for him.

I hope I helped.

I have answerd this question so many time its getting redundant but o.k. why do girls feel the need to shop for the latest fashions or get there hair and nails done every darn week or how is it that a girl can tell another girl they look good or that there *** is looking nice in those jeans it simple were different and we were made to be different for a good reason everything a man does is to impress girls in order to get laid its in our D.N.A. we have testosterone which gives us a very high sex drive so we will then pursue you lady's so we can make baby's so we can defend the lady and the baby so we can then decide to support the lady and the baby because the baby's momma is putting out its seriously that simple were that simple were not as complicated as you women we need very few things to survive food water and vajayjayy.lets say there was no porn we would still be looking at the girl next door then later when we are alone using that mental picture to sleep with the girl next door this is not a bad thing its the way were made and could you imagine men not wanting sex we wouldn't do a dam thing but sit on our arses getting fat and bitching that theres nothing on T.V. worth watching not a pretty picture is it sorry for the fifth grade science and human nature lesson but come on stop complaining and be happy were so different it would really be boring if guys and girls were the same

Lot's of men look at porn but he seems to like the porn more than you. On the other hand if he's only getting sex once a month I would probably masturbate to. A man does need sex but not everyday more than once a month would be nice though. This kinda pushes them to cheat, find someone else who will sleep with them, or in your husband case he chooses none of other two choices and just watches porn and pleasures himself. He might need help but he might also feel lonely, neglected and like you don't need or want him. I wish you luck.

Look at? Probably.

2-3 hours a day? Definitely not.

Your husband (and by extension, you) have a serious problem here.

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Then he asked me how often the average married couple has sex. I told him that I think its like once a month. Then he said that's not enough for men so every man married or not has to masturbate almost every day.

Are you saying you won't have sex with him more than once a month or so? If that is correct, you are NOT available to him, and suddenly I am seeing this very differently.

The average married couple has sex more than once a month, and on average more than once a week. And I think most men who have porn readily available look at it, but 3 hours a day is quite a lot. And if you offer him sex and he refuses, then he truly has a problem. I will say this to you again, get rid of the computer or get rid of him. He needs to understand that you mean it, so make him understand.

Sad to say but I think it is getting more prevalent...I'm a married man and I am pretty much addicted to porn and haven't had sex with my wife in a long time...of course that isn't healthy so I am trying to cut way back/or stop...I'm pretty much down to nothing now but the wife is so mad about being ignored for so long that I don't know if we'll ever get back to where we were...internet porn is very intoxicating...it's a huge problem in many marriages i bet...

Well my husband looks at it, even though I don't really like him to.

He does not lock himself in the room for 2-3 hours though! He also would rather have sex with me than watch a video! You should try to have sex more often. Once a month isn't very much.

Yes, I think he has an addiction.

I don't lock myself in a room and watch porn for 3 hours. That is not normal. However I do enjoy watching it when i have some free time. The problem with him is that he has way too much free time. Give him some chores. Call the cable company and cut the internet service.