Married Men looking at Porn?

His viewing of porn is not as troublesome as his chatting with other women is. A lot of guys look at porn, it doesn't necessarily mean we are any less attracted to our wives/girlfriends, we are are simply highly attracted to the female form and as you pointed out, men are visually driven in matters of sex, at least initially.

However, the fact that he seeks out other forms of intimacy from women on line is a clear indicator there is something wrong in his relationship with his wife especially if he is chatting with these women about sexually charged topics.

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First off, he is looking at porn and talking to women online. Not illegal but questionable behaviour in a committed relationship. If he is meeting these women behind her back for sexual encounters, then that is something different. She is getting off at the hands of another man. Not illegal either but very questionable in a committed relationship.

I don't think your friend, or you, can take the moral high ground here. What he is doing is questionable but it does not mean he doesn't love her or find her sexually attractive. Most men will look at porn at some time or another it is a simple sexual gratification thing like masturbation. What she is doing is wrong and potentially grounds for a divorce (if they were married). They both need to come clean and see where that leaves their relationship. Whether he is an ahole to her or not, she needs to confess to her wrongs to.

I think your best option is to stay out of it and let them sort it out between them.

This question has been asked many times. For most men looking at porn is second nature. Men love variety and for many men fantasy is a great risk free tool to find that variety. I know many men that love their wives a lot, but porn is just a fantasy, a way to release stress, and also a way not to cheat. Now the chatting is a little bit more tricky but as long as he does not go beyond the fantasy is fine

I'm with most here - mind your own business.

And if you are the lady in question, relax. It is only porn and internet chat. It is probably his release and way to be someone else for a bit of fun.

Doesn't mean he is going to leave, or is going to even cheat.

And, what a load of rubbish about is she had someone manually stimulating being the same as someone just wasting time on the net. In person is a whole lot more 'real' than some fantasy on the net.

I think everyone looks at porn occasionally. But 6 hours a night and chatting with girls via internet isn't normal. I would tell my friend to sit him down and let him know exactly what she knows. They have to communicate about the problem before they can resolve it. If they are both cheating, divorce seems emanate anyway. So just get on with it.

Dear Prude *****

Every man in the world looks at porn.

Sincerely

MERKA

It's all about addiction - He has a spirit of lust and addiction

All types of people go through it - Men, Women, old young -

I heard a Bishop talk yesterday about being addicted to porn when he was 38 and married, and preaching.........He said he wasn't delivered until he confessed.

Try http://www.p4cm.com/

I am a woman and always looked at porn, even when i was married. I don't think it's men-specific.

Butt out - it's none of your business. You have a full time job minding your own business.