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Do married men still look at porn?

When my husband and I were dating, I found his porn collection on the computer, it was massive. I told him I accidentally found it and laughed, but he was embarrassed.

I don't know if he is embarrassed, or hides it...but he denies it.

Is it normal for a married man to look at porn still? Does it mean anything to them, do they get feelings? Or do they just need to do it sometimes, as just a quick meaningless physical fix?

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  • RK07
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Yes, it's perfectly normal. It often means nothing, so don't worry.

  • 1 decade ago

    Unfortunately, Sometimes even more than when they are single. This can be caused by many different reasons. Such as having a stale relationship, or dissatisfaction with the spouses performance and so on. In some cases, A married couple indulges in porn to spice up their sexual arousal.

    All in all, it's just a cheap thrill to most. There usually are no meaningful feelings involved. But... If it is done excessively, there maybe a deeper issue.

    Good luck.

  • .
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Everyone watches porn and they're lying out of shame (abusive religious upbringing) if they claim otherwise. It's funny how the ones who deny it are the ones who download it the most and have the creepiest fetishes! Just do some research about the bible belt and islamic countries, lmao. Porn is just entertainment really and I don't see why it's such a big deal as long as it's not an addiction. It's not cheating and people need to get over it already.

  • Is it normal for a married man to look at porn still?

    -Yes. Married women do as well.

    Does it mean anything to them, do they get feelings?

    -Feelings? Yes, they all madly in love with the deep throat girls and want to have their children. No, they get erections, not feelings.

    Or do they just need to do it sometimes, as just a quick meaningless physical fix?

    -MASTURBATION. Nothing more.

    Source(s): Questions like these make me embarrassed to be a woman.
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Men, married or single, look at porn to compensate for insufficient quantity and quality in their sex lives. So whether a married man looks at porn depends on his wife.

  • 1 decade ago

    I remember when I thought married men didn't masturbate...I mean, WHY?! They have someone to have sex with all the time. Well, that's just not true. And it's the same with porn. Dr. Laura Schlessinger would say you should send him to re-hab for sex addiction. Horse pucky. Men just love nasty stuff. We're not like that so it's hard for us to understand. My husband told me one time that if we (women) knew what went through their minds, we'd hate them!

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    It's not "normal" for men to look at porn in any circumstance - that is a learned, and highly damaging (to both sexes) behaviour. My fiance has never looked at porn and has absolutely no interest in doing so. I will grant that he is much more sophisticated in his thinking than the average person, but I know many men who do not get turned on by the devaluation and degradation of women as sexual objects.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yeah they do. it's just a quick meaningless thing, so don't worry too much... unless he's looking at it all the time, then he's got an addiction...

  • 1 decade ago

    im a married woman, and i look at porn. sometimes with my husband, sometimes not. he thinks is hot. oh yeah. XD

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Its just a fix...

    Don;t worrya bout it. It saves marriages from cheating .

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