any ideas what to do now?

I'll try to keep this short and sweet. So we meet a 3 weeks ago. At a friends birthday party. Got along great. Exchanged numbers. Called her the next day setup a date. So went out 2 Sundays ago on a date. Took her wine tasting. she said we should take pictures together. So we did Then I took her to the beach for a nice dinner. Not one awkward moment the whole 5 hours we where together. We share a lot in common. We where already discussing another date. While in the car on the ride home she like wow we look cute, viewing the photos. I let her know I was going to be out of town for a week. She also let me know she would be gone the weekend I return.

So I dropped her off at home , gave her a hug and kiss(on the cheek). Her very nice and polite, thanks for everything. I let her know I would be out of town for a week. So while on my drive up for my trip, I called her told her I really enjoyed are evening out. Her she said yes so did I.

On another stop I said I uploaded the other pictures on fb.
She comments "Hahahaha my favorite of all time!!"
Then I texted her " there are a few better pics"
she "says they are cute!"
I then said "i guess"i guess"
"But hey i'm kidding they are have a good night got to go"
her" k. have fun !
10 mins goes by
she says "i thought we took more pictures then that?"
Me " i guess we can take more when I get back "
her" haha ok "
so I said " ok I'm driving hun . i'll call ya tomorrow if you like?"
her "k"
So we talked everyday I was gone to k.i.t
She had her final last week . So I made sure to wish her luck at 8am. ---She liked that-- -
So we talked that day when I woke up in the afternoon . Said she had to get ready for Vegas with her sister.
I said ok well talk later. Texted her on Friday just to say hi hope your having fun well talk when you get back.
She texts back I am . Thanks...

The night she get back, Sunday she comments on another pic of us.
I waited till Monday to call her Phones dead. She contacts me on Facebook letting me know her phone broke while in Vegas. she will be getting a new one on Tuesday. So we talked on FB. I asked her if she wants go out again she say Yes! But she has to get a few things squared away this week . So on Tuesday she asks for my number again and we talk on the phone. She says she might be able to hangout , if not tomorrow. So we where unable to hangout. So Wednesday I called her we talked she says she wants to hangout but has to go get a fix it ticket signed off by chp - we talked about it before- then has to drop her car off to her sisters to let her barrow it for the next 2 weeks. So she would be with out a car. She says she might be hanging out with her sister for the rest of the day. But we will talk later she said. I said okay hmm, she says don't worry we will hangout this week.

So I gave her space to hangout with her sister yesterday. I waited to contact her this afternoon.
I texted her" so do you still want to do something today?"
Her response "Ahh,can't.. I have a job interview! :)

So I have no idea what do say to that.
You can see I obviously like her. I don't want to rush this , or push her.
Or is it too late? she just might not be interested and is trying to slowly blow me off.

Input please be honest!

Thank You

Sarah2011-08-11T20:40:11Z

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something you should know, is that women are fricken complicated. it could be alot of different things. at the beginning of your short/long story, i would have to say she is very interested in you because women like to take pics with guys they like. (mostly to show off) now at the end it does seem like she is distant but it could be the way your telling the story. it depends on how you have really been texting her. endless texts asking "are we gonna hangout" are kind of annoying, maybe (if you really like her) you think of something romantic. you could get tickets to an event or take her to a nice restaurant and make it a surprise. but you can't over do it or you'll seem stalker-ish. and women like to test people, you shouldn't wait to text her or do it at your convenience(again,if you like her) do it in the morning, she might like that you were thinking about her first thing. and to be honest she probably genuinely had an interview. just show her your interested and you'd like things to continue. and maybe you should just tell her that. hope this helps.

Baker2011-08-11T20:43:44Z

From the sounds of it, she likes you too man, but you need to give her some space. It should work like a push pull, you push, and then you wait until she pulls. In other words, you ask her if she wants to hang out and then wait for her to say she is free to hang out. She doesn't want a guy who is clingy, so give her some space. She will come to you soon. She is not blowing you off. Good luck!

?2016-10-18T11:13:15Z

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Anonymous2011-08-11T20:38:15Z

It seems like she is just trying to blow you off slowly. Sorry

?2011-08-11T20:32:59Z

I honestly can't tell. She might be trying to blow you off, but she honestly might not be able to.

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