Confused about love!?
Sigh, love is a complicated, sad and happy thing all rolled into one. The thing is that I'm in college and really want to focus all attention on school, but love had other plans, love doesn't wait, it comes out of nowhere and knocks you in the heart so quick you barely have time to breathe.So there is this one guy who likes me a lot, I can tell by the way he stares at me. And I like him too. But honestly my whole future rests on me getting good grades, am I missing out on life by choosing college>love.
Sometimes I take detours around the the campus just to avoid him. I heard a mutual friend tell him that when he doesn't see me he gets really depressed and sad, and that makes me sad. A part of him wants to comfort him, but my brain is telling my heart to shut up, focus on college and don't toy with other people's feelings. I really really do like him, I can't stress that enough. But my schedule is so hectic, job, bills, etc.
So my question is: should I "coincidently" show up where he is? It makes him happy to see me...
Sorry I know its a stupid question, but sometimes I wonder why such an intelligent person can be so stupid when it comes to love :(