Thanksgiving day dilemma?
Here's the problem: last week my aunt invited my husband and I over to have Thanksgiving with her huge family and we accepted. This morning (two days before Thanksgiving) I get a call from my mom asking about our Thanksgiving plans. I told her that we would be going to my aunt's house (her sister's house) and they were thinking they would come and have Thanksgiving at our house (they live eight hours away in another state). I suggested that we should all go to my aunts house and my mom was cool with it but my dad hates going there (not sure why) and says they don't know if they will come after all. So I made the decision that we are definitely going to my aunt's house no matter what because we have been invited and accepted. I should also say that I'm not all that close with my parents or my aunt. My husband is very close to his parents and says I should have cancelled my plans with my aunt and had my parents come over to our house. Do you guys think I'm wrong? What would you do?
My parents aren't alone, they have my two younger sisters still living with them. They tend to do things at the spur of the moment without much planning and sometimes it disrupts our plans. My husband insists that it's wrong to put my aunt before my parents but they invited us first and I accepted. Why can't they just come with us to her place? I hate family drama!