Y dont guys have the balls to make the first move anymore!?

Y have guys become such pussy's now? when they like a girl and it obvious that the girl likes them and they want to ask the girl out y don't they?? guys don't need to spend weeks planning to ask a girl out or anything, the longest it should take to plan it is a day and the guy has to do it by himself. y cant guys do that anymore?? And when it comes to kissing a girl the guy is supposed to make the first move but then they just sit there and don't so then the girl makes the first move... y?! I understand its ok to b nervous but come on b a man! or at least pretend. when u want to hold ur girls hand just hold her hand, don't let her just hang there! when a girl wants a hug don't hesitate give her a hug!
Y r guys like this these days!!?? a long time ago guys used to b confident and do whatever they want
y cant guys b like that now? and without being jerks 2!!??

Sly Barker2013-07-24T12:07:23Z

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Stop hanging out with girly men and you'll see how a man handles a woman he's into. I've never been afraid to let a girl know how I feel even if I've never spoken to or met her before. For some reason walking up to a complete stranger and telling her that I think she's hot and I want to buy her dinner worked very well for me, even when they had boyfriends.

Anonymous2013-07-24T11:55:30Z

Because when they do girls act all offended and boys are scared of how you will take it cause girls always find a way to take something badly. So next time a guy try's to kiss you don't be a bitchh about it.

Anonymous2013-07-24T11:58:29Z

well, I'm all for a confident guy, but the guy doesn't necessarily have to make the first move. and you can't blame a guy if he's afraid of rejection- in fact you shouldn't blame anyone for feeling that way-everyone's a little scared of making that first move.

Just another guy2013-07-24T14:16:35Z

Because sexist feminists have made most females believe all of us guys are supposed to be perverts if we make any kind of move.

Chris Hansen2013-07-24T11:59:13Z

Richard, I am Chris Hansen from Dateline NBC. Why don't you take a seat?

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