Im in a relationship with a girl but I cant stop thinking about having sex with guys. How can I handle this?

Im a bi guy and I love girls and only want to date girls but my sexual desire for men is so strong its making it hard not to cheat. The idea of being in a long term relationship and never having sex that involves penis again is seriously depressing. My girl doesnt want to have 3somes and she isnt going to let me do it on my own. She is an amazing woman and I dont want to lose her or hurt her but I dont know what to do. I wish these urges would just go away

potmonkey4202016-08-21T10:44:22Z

Of you are in love why not explore other options like her fingering your butt? Or buying toys. Like a strap on that she can peg you with? Or just a ********* or dildo for your personal use? If she loves you and you are in love you should be able to talk about these things together. She should understand, and if she doesn't then she isn't a very good partner.