What should I tell this friend?
The other night (Sunday) around 12:30a.m. my friend called me, waking me up from a deep sleep. We talked about 40 minutes. He did most of the talking. We used to be close. I used to call him at times, his phone would go to voice mail before the first ring. So I stopped calling him for that reason.
Then today he called me around 8:30 am Tuesday. Again, waking me up . Him: What are you doing? Me: You woke me up,,,, Good bye... I hung up the phone..
He called later in the morning.. His dumb girlfriend, (Yes I really mean it) kept repeatedly coughing.Which I thought was rude... He has volume up on the TV that I could hardly hear him... Again he was rude.. Never has considerations for others. Towards the end of the conversation he told me he will call me later tonight. I told him okay... But i KNOW he will not call me....
Staying the night is out of the question. We live two hours away. He still lives at home with his mom, twenty year old son; four year old (annoying pain in the a$$ to be around) His stupid g/f... I do not know her and do not care for her...
He has not had a job since 2007. Claims he need to be on disability. Has back problem and hips... Has not had any back surgies of any kind. He is the type that does not like working very much or long...