Wife says I look into things too much. I don't know how to stop. I need some advice.?

We have 2 young kids so we have the family stress. My Mom left my dad after 30 years of marriage (6 yrs ago). I always have it in my head that my wife may leave me. So I am always looking into things.
My wife told me she always tells me how it is and there isn't a hidden meaning behind it. For example she said why don't you lay down with our son so he can nap. I took that as she didn't want to spend time with me.
I need some advice. Thx

Serene E2017-08-07T01:52:23Z

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Therapy, dude, before the divorce takes place because you don't trust her.

seedy history2017-08-07T00:02:19Z

Therapy.

Coach Simon2017-08-06T21:01:55Z

Your fear seems to be stronger than your love. Your children look to your marriage as their model, so work on yourself (watch Anthony Robbins on Youtube) and your marriage. If everyone read books like Dr Phil McGraw's excellent, Relationship Rescue they would get deeper insights into how relationships work and learn to be much happier! (I wish I got commission, as I recommend it to so many people!). As he writes in the book, it isn't only or people whose relationships are in trouble. There are other books, of course.

Sur La Mer2017-08-06T19:55:16Z

She'd RATHER, want you to spend MORE time with your sons, than WORRYING!

When you're kept busy, your worries go away, including stuff that DOESN'T exist now.

If you have doubts, 6 years ago, you wouldn't have gotten married!

Patricia2017-08-06T19:07:14Z

You are over-thinking things, and since your wife is direct, and to the point, then ask her questions if you're insecure (and you are insecure).

Just because your Mom left your Dad it doesn't mean your wife will do the same thing

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