boyfriend cheated on me?

last week i found out my boyfriend of a year had been cheating on me for 6 months with another girl. in september him and i took a little break but we still continued to talk the entire time. me and him started officially dating again september 19th but he’d gotten into a new relationship september 11th. the girl he’d had an affair with found out about me so she threatened to tell me. i guess he got scared and told me first. he told me everything and started begging me not to leave him. he said he only had real feelings for the girl in the beginning and after that he just didn’t know how to break up with her. he begged three days straight until i finally gave in. i decided to give him another chance because i do love him and he seemed genuinely sorry. the problem is i’m still really really hurt and i have feelings of anger towards him. him cheating on me is all i can think about when we talk. he says he needs me and can’t go a day without me and that he’s cut the other girl off completely. should i leave him completely? or wait for these feelings to go away?

2018-04-02T12:04:12Z

he also says he’s not the same person he was months ago and that he’ll do anything just to keep me.

Your Uncle Dodge!2018-04-02T16:08:30Z

He can say what he wants, but he's a master at keeping two. I am not sure what you see in him, because I already would have left a partner that's doubling up all the time.

bilbo2018-04-02T12:48:00Z

Lol he clearly is still the same person, honestly it baffles me that you can't see how clear that is. He got into a relationship a week before you started again. This is a big moment in life you can choose to respect yourself or you can stay with him. Be warned the decision you make will pattern the rest of your life. Choose to be someone who gets walked all over or someone who stops people walking over them.

Blue Sky2018-04-02T12:16:40Z

Its been a year or close to it, and you still can't forgive him, so its time to stop torturing yourself and end it. You gave yourself ample time to forgive him and its not gonna happen, so do what's right.