Guys, is my fiancé lying?
My fiancé is typically very honest with me. At the start of our relationship, he lied about watching porn. I had a relationship previously where I was lied to all of the time, so the lying hit me hard. He promised to never lie about porn again. Ever since, he has told me each time he’s watched it. However, we were sitting together looking up movies on his phone, and we see porn in his history. It was like 20 porn links. It was from the morning prior. He says ‘I do not remember watching this’ and insists it was in his sleep. I’m hurt deeply because I don’t find it realistic to watch porn in your sleep. He says he knows how I feel about lying and he has no reason to lie. So I guess my question is, do you think it’s possible to click 20 links of porn in your sleep? Because as a person who suffers from mental illness, I just can’t deal with lies, especially after I’ve expressed that lying is my one and only deal breaker.
Thanks in advance for your help!