Do all men expect oral sex from their wives?
I think oral sex is gross. If I get married to my boyfriend, will he expect it from me?
I think oral sex is gross. If I get married to my boyfriend, will he expect it from me?
DialM4Speed
He might but if he ain't getting it now I don't think he will. What you should do is talk to him about it BEFORE you get married. Don't wait until after and then think the problem will go away.
Anonymous
They would like it and some will "expect" it but you are the boss when
it comes to what you will and not do. I think oral sex is disgusting too. Who wants a blob of flesh in their mouth where urine comes out of it? Plus balls hanging around it and smells. No way.
Mystic
You have to understand your boundaries. a lot of women find that to be disgusting. If your boyfriend doesn't respect the boundaries of you not wanting oral. then you should get a new one.
Good
You better discuss it now. Don't give him false hope
if it's not your thing.
We don't necessarily expect it if she didn't set the precedent
when dating, but we sure do like it.
If you are VERY skilled with your hands and some lube, we
can close our eyes and enjoy nicely. But, you must be willing
to become skilled and not think all things sexual are icky.
Sex is messy. The messier, the better in a lot of cases.
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hornchurchmale
most men will want it and many expect it though my wife has never given me any as she cannot handle it. same with anal sex. one needs to iron out these things before committing to long term relationships. we don;'t want a guy making excuses to get 'oral ' relief with somebody else!not all females want or desire oral. some men do not want to give oral to females .its all down to our own mental attitudes. we can if we want ? try and overcome issues or hesitation eg sucking a banana and think of it as a penis but even when my wife tried this she gagged and gave up. mental aptitude is key . if u find it abhorrent then ensure eh is Ok with not doing it!