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Do all men expect oral sex from their wives?

I think oral sex is gross. If I get married to my boyfriend, will he expect it from me?

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  • 2 days ago

    He might but if he ain't getting it now I don't think he will. What you should do is talk to him about it BEFORE you get married. Don't wait until after and then think the problem will go away.

  • Anonymous
    2 days ago

    They would like it and some will "expect" it but you are the boss when 

    it comes to what you will and not do. I think oral sex is disgusting too. Who wants a blob of flesh in their mouth where urine comes out of it? Plus balls hanging around it and smells. No way.

  • 2 days ago

    You have to understand your boundaries. a lot of women find that to be disgusting. If your boyfriend doesn't respect the boundaries of you not wanting oral. then you should get a new one. 

  • 3 days ago

    Only if your are consenting or open to that action or activity. He might be your husband but if you're not willing, he needs to accept and respect that. This is a major issue for Christian marriages too and I advice them with the advice....Psychologist here. 

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  • garry
    Lv 6
    3 days ago

    no , only desperate men ask for oral , most normal men think its to degrading for a woman to do that .

  • 4 days ago

    Not expect but it’s nice. When my wife does it I make sure she knows it’s appreciated. It’s rare but it’s awesome 

  • Anonymous
    5 days ago

    Most women give it while they are dating, then stops completely once married.  But if you are among those who won't give it before marriage, your future husband (assuming you find one) will have no expectation anything will change in the future.

  • Good
    Lv 6
    5 days ago

    You better discuss it now.  Don't give him false hope

    if it's not your thing.

    We don't necessarily expect it if she didn't set the precedent

    when dating, but we sure do like it.

    If you are VERY skilled with your hands and some lube, we

    can close our eyes and enjoy nicely.  But, you must be willing

    to become skilled and not think all things sexual are icky.

    Sex is messy.  The messier, the better in a lot of cases.

    .

  • 5 days ago

    most men will want it and many expect it though my wife has never given me any as she cannot handle it.  same with anal sex.  one needs to iron out these things before committing to long term relationships. we don;'t want a guy making excuses to get 'oral ' relief with somebody else!not all females want or desire oral.  some men do not want to give oral to females .its all down to our own mental attitudes. we can if we want ? try and overcome issues or hesitation eg sucking a banana  and think of it as a penis but even when my wife tried this she gagged and gave up. mental aptitude is key . if u find it abhorrent then ensure eh is Ok with not doing it! 

  • 5 days ago

    I have seen studies that about half of women do oral. But they all love it done on themselves.

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