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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 2 days ago

Husband always critical of me but cannot stand to be criticised himself. Why? ?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 hours ago

    It's called narcissism. 

  • 1 day ago

    People who are feeling confident and secure and have self respect don't feel a need to call people names, criticise, bully, shout, etc. Try to help him with his self image. 

    Buy him an Anthony Robbins book or audio - or he can watch the Great Man on Youtube. 

    Good Luck!

  • 1 day ago

    Because, to him, the use of criticisms are a power play and he can't stand the thought of his own technique being used against him. 

  • 1 day ago

    The best defense is a good offense. Does this apply to your situation?

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  • 2 days ago

    He's a narcissist.  Seek a divorce because he'll only get worse AND eventually he will get abusive.  Sounds like he's already there.

  • Nemo S
    Lv 4
    2 days ago

    "Perfectionist" their greatest flaw is the inability to accept criticisms because they are already "Perfect" and it's a learned behavior...

    N.Shadows

  • 2 days ago

    Because he thinks he's some sort of god and you are just his rather inadequate minion.  What a big head you have married.  Don't criticise him.  He's not going to change.  If you don't have any kids - dump him.  Use your feet and walk away.  That'll surprise him won't it - that his house-slave has a mind of her own and doesn't need his advice and constant criticism.

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