If all the good men are supposedly taken why so many women complaining about their husbands ?
2021-04-07T00:18:05Z
All I hear on this site is women complaining about their marriages but then the single women always say all the good ones are married.. so which one is it?
Anonymous2021-04-07T12:33:40Z
1) "All the good men are taken" is a fallacy. There will always be good men around.
2) Bad men get married as well (just as bad women do)
3) This is a question and answer site. People come here to get answers to relationship problems and issues, not to swoon over their spouses, so you'll see the former and not the latter.
I married a good man*, and I've never felt the need to complain about him or ask random strangers on the internet about him. Neither have any of my friends who are happily married. ___________________ * and no, I did not settle (in fact, even after years of marriage, I still can't believe my luck sometimes - that this amazing man feels the same way about me that I feel about him), nor have I tried to change him, because I love him just the way he is.
I liked Mike's answer . Instead of thumbing down why don't you haters tell him how he's wrong?
I have visited dating sites many times and it's so obvious that most women want a guy who is tall, white, funny's confident , has a good job etc .. Very few men meet all those "requirements"..
Most women think poorly of men who are shy, unconfident , short, poor , nerds etc..These guys are often labeled by women as "weirdos" or "losers"
Now, just because I don't meet women's "requirements" doesn't meet I resent women! Far from it! I would like all women to have happy marriages ..I would like all women to be loved and appreciated by their husbands . It makes me sad when I hear of women who are dumped once they are pregnant ..or to hear about women whose husbands cheat on them and even pass on STDs to their wives ..However these are the consequences of women prioritizing a man's height or skin color over his morals or feelings ..and by the way, I don't think I have good feelings nor morals so this has nothing to do with me wanting to be selected ...this is just about common sense ..morals are more important than height .
Both premises are untrue: that "all good men are taken" and also that "so many women complain about their husbands". Perhaps you read this here...but there are probably many more wives who don't bother to write here and don't complain and are very happy with their hubbys, including me. So there.
mike's answer is brilliant it is 100% accurate , men women turn down when they think they are young and attractive will not even look at them when they are older and unattractive and that makes them VERY angry, but their argument is with nature not men it's just bad luck they are women