Is it cheating if it's on line??

yes it is sweet heart.

I agree with the person that said if you have to ask, it is cheating. there is obviously something going on through conversation that is making you feel like you are cheating, and you want to keep it from your spouse. So in my book it is cheating

It is very much cheating! If your spouse has to hide all his on line contacts and they are all female then it is just as much cheating as if he were to do it face to face! When he talks to them more than you, then it needs to be addressed promptly!

This happens a lot when the soldiers are overseas!

Of course it's cheating, because it means that you are looking for something (emotionally or cyber-sexually) with someone other than the person you SHOULD be meeting those needs with.

every one has a little pervert in them and enjoys sexual anonymous talk. you can be completely open and not worry about the other person's reaction to your freak side, cause one click and their gone. If your not getting interested in this person and its not one person you cant stop talking to I wouldnt say its cheating. Hows it any different from masturbating to porn? Just a little more real and who wouldnt watch an attractive person undress and get off when no ones watching.

Jesus said that if you even look you have already cheated...

"27 “YOU heard that it was said, ‘You must not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to YOU that everyone that keeps on looking at a woman so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matthew 5:27,28

yes it's cheating in my book. if the person is doing something that you cannot join in on, it's considered cheating, plus they are asking if they have a webcam...that's pretty face to face to me....so yeah....it's cheating...

yes it is cheating. A marriage should be based on trust and respect, how are you showing respect if you are flirting with someone else?

yeah thats cheating cuz if your webcamming with each other and cybering..example cyber sex) then obviously it's not right.

What if your spouse found out, I don't think he like it.

You are already cheating if you even think about someone else in your head and your heart.

Cheating is cheating.hey r u related to the presidential clintons in any way? lol