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Why are men that you meet online such perverts?

Okay, I met this guy online who tells me up front that he is sexual. He had a webcam and proceded to give me a show of how sexual he is. Why are men that you meet online perverts? Are they all like that? Where do you find the really nice ones who really want and are looking for a relationship? I live in Toronto Canada and don't seem to be having any luck. I am tempted to join a convent.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    No, not all men are perverts. I think the internet attracts a lot of perverts and it is a great place for them to prowl. After all it is somewhat anonymous. It sounds like the guy you have gotten involved with, like one of the guys that answered this guestion, does not know what true intimacy is. Intimacy has very little to do with sex or with exposing ones self. Intimacy is being real with someone and exposing your innerself. Your fears, ambitions. likes and dislikes. Intimacy means to open up and let someone see who you really are. When a guy wants sex right off the bat, chances are he is afraid of intimacy.

    I think you would do well to meet a guy, who wants to get to know you for who you are. Not just for your body. Don't join that convent just yet. Hang in there and set some good boundaries. Let guys know what you expect and let them know that you are not an object, but a person. Before your clothes come off, they must expose themselves to you. Their innerselves. A good guestion to ask a guy is "who are you". Usually from the answer you can tell if the guy is really genuine of not, and wether he has a good grip on reality. Also check out the questions he asks about you. Does he ask about your dreams and aspirations? Does he ask what you like and what you want in life?

    A good moto, is before I let you touch me, you must touch me. Get it?

  • 5 years ago

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  • 2 decades ago

    Not all guys are like that. I go online in hopes of meeting someone because I hate the bar scene and don't know where else to look. Life is tough when you are single and it seems as if people are wanting things other than a relationship. What happened to the good old days?

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    This would really work out and e finitely tell him all those things! You guys could meet at the concert and it'd be a cute first date! I met my bf online and he lives half an hour away and we just see each other every Sunday. Plan A day and just talk a lot it would really work out!

  • 2 decades ago

    they are not all like that. i met my love online. so yes there are some perverted people out there but there are also good ones, they just show up at unexpected times. :D

  • 2 decades ago

    that isnt always the case ....some guys just want to be intimate with the partner they have on cam cause they have no luck in finding it other ways....i do believe its wrong to do it the first time...but in time as you start to develope a deeper friendship..i see nothing wrong with showing what God naturally gave you

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    i dont no its soooo annoying!!

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    becues they dont get ***** duh

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