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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 2 decades ago

Should I say 'Happy Birthday' to her? Read below pls:?

I found out some time ago that the one i considered to be my best best friend was very jealous of my successes and...well, she stopped acting like a true friend. I had a serious discussion with her and decided to break up our friendship and only remain work mates. Next week is her birthday. Shd I tell her "Happy Birthday" or just pretend I didn't remember? Advise me, please...

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Trying to avoid the problem always makes it even bigger. So, just tell her happy birthday as a work-mate. It is never a myth that a work-mate cannot remember her birthday! If you avoid her birthday, she might think that you are still serious about her and trying to avoid her to make her feel bad. This might turn into a greater trouble in your life. Please just play her easy. Time will make everything OK!

  • 2 decades ago

    It seems as if you still want to be friends, or you wouldn't be asking this question. Maybe after all this time, she has reconsidered her jealousy. If you tell her Happy Birthday, this may open the door to her apologizing, and you can be friends again. But don't expect anything much, that way you won't be too let down if it doesn't happen the way you want it to.

  • 2 decades ago

    It depends, Do you want to be her friend?

    If yes,

    Her b-day is a special occasion, I think you should tell her happy birthday, maybe she will she that you were the bigger person and it might bring your friendship back together.

    If you do not want to be friends with her any more then No don't say it

  • 2 decades ago

    If you're still on decent speaking terms, tell her happy birthday. I tell co-workers happy birthday all the time. We even have office parties for them. It in no way implies that you want to start up your friendship, it's just a polite thing to do.

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  • 2 decades ago

    No matter what, she'll still be your friend and you know you want to tell her "Happy Birthday", do it but don't make a big deal about it... You might be major friends or minor friends, your still friends an you still care, nothing will ever change that.

  • 2 decades ago

    Wish her a happy birthday for sure! If it was one of your work mates birthday, wouldn't you wish them well? Just because you are not close friends anymore, doesn't mean that you should not be considerate.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Yes...and if she's cute then hell yes.I once had a girl that was jealous of everything I did just about.Couldn't figure her out...she even got jealous cause I'd outlast her in bed...people are freakin weird but that's human nature...so be human brotherman...tell her from the heart...you seem like the descent fella...

    Source(s): you,me,everybody..........
  • 2 decades ago

    You must wish her happy birthday.

    Because you should not make yourself behave like a child. Your grown up now, a wish will not kill you nor her, so forget about the fight and give a chance to her to make her birthday a memorable one.

    It's the least she deserves,isn't it?

  • hans
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    Saying Happy Birthday won't hurt ya. It's just a couple words. Just say it if you want it.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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