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my boss is hot. im 19 and will turn 20 on june. he just turned 36?

i like him a lot, should i tell him my feelings or should i still respect him for been my boss. He is hot, god. i will like to do it with him in his office. what you think, im in the moon or should i put my feet back to earth? thanks

Update:

HE ISNT MARRIED AND HE DOESNT HAVE ANY KIDS.

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  • 2 decades ago
    Favorite Answer

    Leave the boss alone, if you are looking for something serious. Otherwise **** him hard, and get ready to lose the job.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Well, U need to ask yourself a question: Is it worth it? I mean, what would U win doing this? it would be something better than just a moment of pleasure? I guess U have now the perfect answer. I don't think is a good idea to put all in a risk in the situation U're, I guess U like your boss a lot, but, have U thought that the only thing that attracts U from him is just the fact "he's your boss and he's forbidden" think about it, maybe there's nothing else.

    Besides, U can also try to find someone else out of the work to go out with U and to keep U away from troubles.

    Source(s): Just me, Silver Fox!
  • 2 decades ago

    This situation has all the makings for disaster. First the fact that you are so much younger, second the fact that he is your boss, third is he married?? There are to many guys out there in the world that will treat you with respect, cherish you and identify with you becuase they are closer to your age. Often times a guy who is that old and not taken usually has some type of flaw. He could be a player, a lier, a manipulator, have commitment issues or just be a di ck that you won't see until you have given it up if that is what he wants. Have some respect for yourself and come back to earth. Don't be the cliche young office girl who gives it up, if nothing less he won't respect you and neither will your colleagues.

  • regula
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    You mentioned that 'surely everyone' mentioned that's in easy terms a three 3 hundred and sixty 5 days difference. who's surely everyone? your pals? in the beginning, you're way too youthful to additionally be attentive to what authentic love is, that's extra like a crush. 2nd, he's of criminal age now and could bypass to detention center in case you date him and your mum and dad disapprove. in case you relatively look after him as much as you assert, then you could inform him you will watch for your 18th birthday to start relationship him. nonetheless uncertain.. Dateline is packed with men his age who attempt to attach to young women and finally end up getting arrested. i'm no longer asserting he's something like that, however the comparable element can ensue.

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  • Dhara
    Lv 6
    2 decades ago

    Same thing happened to me. I never got the advancements that I should because he knew that if I did then one day I could be his boss and that might be uncomfortable for him. Also, when it ends it will be very unpleasant for you. Bad idea.

  • Stay well clear, you'll either make a fool of yourself or end up having an affiar, ruining his marriage, hurting is kids and then getting fired... if he's single, just worry about losing the job!

  • 2 decades ago

    its never good to end up with the boss..and you should definently not let your feelings get involved in your job. your job is more important than anything..there are tons of other guys out there dont let this make you make a choice youll regret in the long run..

  • 2 decades ago

    Never mess around with the boss if you really like your job.If a relationship starts and ends you may get fired.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    First off your pretty young to be chasing older men,let alone ur boss? im gonna guess hes married in all senses think about what ur doing ur still young.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    ask him out after work for supper to talk about work..then when he is there and had at least one drink, start telling him how great he is...

    believe me is he is a red blooded American man..you will have not trouble with him.

    just keep it outside of work and again there shouldn't be any trouble.

    but think about this..if you like him..and you do not tell him..some one else will go for him and you lose out

    life is to short 'so go for it

    Good Luck

    be happy

  • 2 decades ago

    Hon don't even go there work place romances are NOT good at all I have seen this and someone ends up quitting when the romance is done

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