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if u just broke up with ur boyfriend...is it so wrong to go out with his best friend?

i just broke up with my ex for the 2nd time and this time..its 4 good. but his best friend wants to go out with me and i like him 2 but would it be wrong 2 go out with him?

me and my ex just broke up not even a week ago?

Update:

(last time we broke up because he kissed my best friend....)

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  • 2 decades ago
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    If you and you ex JUST broke up there isn't even any need to go out with anyone right now especially not your ex's best friend. Now is the time for you to take out time for yourself and re-evaluate you. If both you and your ex figured that you all were not what each other needed then you need to find out what it is that you want in a man. By jumping into something with his best friend you are just using him as a rebound. And think about it would you want him dating you best friend? Besides I don't believe that his best friend would even be looking for something serious with you anyways so don't waste your time and definitely DO NOT GO OUT WITH HIS BEST FRIEND.

    Source(s): MY PERSONAL OPINION.
  • 2 decades ago

    YES!!!!!! first off, If his BEST friend is willing to go out with you right after the two of you just broke up he is scum and has no respect for people he calls friends. That would eventually include you as well. Second, You would just be on rebound, which never works out anyway so why ruin a frendship just to be with a guy you cant trust in the first place.

  • 2 decades ago

    Yes that would be wrong. You DO NOT want to get in between best friends.

    What ever happened between you and the first guy his best friend knows, and all that happens between you and this new guy, he will run and tell the old boyfriend.

    All it will do is cause trouble.

  • 2 decades ago

    I think you can do whatever you want, you are free from any obligations out of this relationship....The problem is your new b.f. If he is a close friend of your ex, than he will not date you, if yes, he is his own motherf..... and son of a bich. What do you think if your ex would date your best friend? Would you still have this question?

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  • mhw
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    Why do you want to destroy this man's relationship with his best friend? It will only lead to MAJOR trouble - don't do it. And yes, most people would consider you trash. How would you feel if your ex started dating YOUR best friend? Wouldn't you lose respect for that friend?

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    YES! there are millions of men on this earth. there is no reason to ruine a friendship. even if your ex says he doesnt care imagin how you would feel if he dated your best friend now.

  • 2 decades ago

    You need to really search your heart and decide if you really like this guy enough to ruin his friendship with your ex. plus is their friendship strong enough to withstand you dating his friend. Maybe you should sit down with hte friend and have a heart to heart about what you both really want..give it a shot..Communication is always the key!

  • Gypsy
    Lv 6
    2 decades ago

    it's not wrong, but don't be surprised if you have a few uncomfortable situations when the ex is around his buddy. Plus, I'm sure they'll share and compare...

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    go ahead if it was your best friend do you think he would care nope he'd go out with her quick and besides you like his best friend and he likes you don't let the ex keep you from being happy

  • nothing says i am over you like dating his best friend a week later. Now thats what i call moving on.

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