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What can I do to get my wife to enjoy anl sx more. She will only do it when she is drunk. What do girls like?

We have done it before and she liked it, but said it hurt during, and hurt the next day. I want to do something she likes and enjoys so she will want it more. Girls, any Ideas?

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  • 2 decades ago
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    First you need to sit down and discuss why she wont do it sober. She might be afraid it is going to hurt again. If you go slow and use lots of lube and if she relaxes it shouldnt hurt. If it does you should stop. Ask her what you can do to make her enjoy it more. ANd if she doesnt want to do it..then you should respect her decision.

  • 2 decades ago

    I don't think she really enjoys it then. I think she does it because you like to do it, if she wants to do it when she's drunk that means she doesn't want to have any memory of it happening, it sounds weird but it's the truth. Why don't you ask her what she likes mayb that will work.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    well anl sx isn't something most girls enjoy....so i wouldnt' put it on the like list

    why don't you ask her what she likes? you'll get the best result that way.

  • 2 decades ago

    Ok Ive got a few things four you both to try out that will help and you will enjoy.

    First of for a-nal sex. I just copied this from one of my other anwsers a women asked me the other day so here you go

    Ok this can be enjoyable for women but it takes time and you have to learn to make your body relax.

    Go online to say Xandrea.com I think it is and order some good a-lube and for beginners pick up a small btt plug. If you are 21 go to the store and pick up a bottle of Boonesfarm wine it is a cheap wine but tastes very good. This will help you loosen up.

    After you clean yourself out(bathroom) take a nice warm bath to get your body to relax more.

    Now to get started. Have your man lube the outside of your ahole with lube making slow soft circles. While he is doing this just relax as much as possible. After you have relaxed some he can insert his finger for a time and then switch to the plug. Until you are relaxed enough that you ahole can expand without hurting for beginners lay on your sides and have him enter you that way. It is less painfull that way. After you have become more experienced and can learn to control your body making it relax when you want to. Lay him on his back and you get on top. This way you will have full control on how much you want and how fast and he gets to lay back and watch.

    Now for alittle extra! Female Ejaculation enjoy!

    First of yes a women can squirt of gush some alittle some alot. And it is not pee so dont freak out you guys out there if your messing around with your women and she squirts on you.

    OK how to get a women to squirt. First off if your in a relationship get your women to learn and practice Kegel Exercises. This will make her be able to squeeze in whenever she wants to. This will also help with female ejaculation.

    Next find her g-spot. the best way is to lay her on her back. With your middle finger insert about 2 inches in or all the way in and curve your finger upwards making firm pressure on her upper wall. With firm pressure begin to make a circular motion with your finger. Trust me you will know when you found her spot but incase you dont know dont be afraid to ask her how it feels. Once she says oooh right there ding ding ding we have a winner you found the g-spot remember this spot every women is alittle different. K now where was I. If she has been doing the kegel exercises have her squeeze in on you while you are fingering her g-spot. After a short bit of time she will get so tight that you can barely move your finger. Keep going until for abit longer and then slowly pull your finger out. 9 out of 10 times you will get a splash if nothing happens repeat all the above.

    Good luck and enjoy

    Any other questions feel free to ask me Ive been with my wife since 1997 so we know a few things and are into a few things lol

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  • AFD
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    2 decades ago

    My gf n exes always said they preffered it on their side to start (spoons), n to take it steady at first + playing with their clit at the same time was a must.

  • 2 decades ago

    Just keep a hefty supply of alcohol. OR, you could try massaging her first to get her horny and relaxed. The key to anal sex is relaxation.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    girls dont usually like pain, apparently she is one of them that is why she has to get drunk, be thankful she lets you at all, in my opinion, she must really love you

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    start by licking it and rubing it put some lube and try a finger then you dick

  • GIVE HER AN ORAL TREATMENT...THEN LCK HER A S S HOLE AND TOSS HER ON HER STOMACH. AFTER THAT JUS SHOVE IT IN.

    Source(s): PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
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