How do you completely forgive someone and move on completely trusting them?

i personally don't think you ever can truly trust someone again

You shouldn't. Forgiving doesn't mean that you have to go back to trusting a person, especially if they aren't trustworthy!

If the connection is important to you, they will have to rebuild your trust over a long period of time, just as they built it before the problem.

Or, you could be fed up, and just never want to have anything to do with the person again, which is fine. YOU choose your friends.

You have to realize that we are all human and we all make mistakes. I'm sure you can think back to something you have done that you really regretted and someone forgave you for it. Gave you a second chance. That felt good didn't it. As far as the completely trusting them, when you were betrayed it made you put up a wall, to protect yourself. To break down that wall, you need to see their point of the situation and look at the reason why they did what they did. but remember, we're only human, none of us are flawless.

You have to forgive in order to move on to trusting someone. It's tough on both ends. No one can give you that answer because you have to do it with your mind and with your heart.

You can forgive but sometimes it is hard to forget. Just make sure that once you forgive you don't throw whatever it is up in their face. And keep a hold over your heart till you are sure they are trustworthy.

forgiveness depends on everyone, but try to think about the good things that person did for u or his or her good qualities, then to trust, well, i guess that s more difficult but just dont think so much about it, anyway we shouldnt trust someone 100%

You can never do that,you might forgive them but never forget what they did to you and you will always be afraid from them doing the same thing to you again you will always be carefull when you talk with them,they might hurt you again.....

it the hardest thing to do , but you well never for get and you can forgive and move on but in the back of ur mind it well be every time you have to work thoug it and he has to give u the time to do it , it well be the hardest thing to do but u can if u want it to work out

not possible...it tatkes years to build up trust and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it..and once its destroyed..and forgiven..you will never completely forgive and forget it..it will always be lingering in the back of your mind..its like a piece of paper..once crumpled, it can never be perfect again..

You may forgive, but you NEVER forget. Ever. Even if you say you do, it is always in the back of your mind somewhere.

Hey it's really hard. I am going through it myself. I still remember, but never let it play a part in our relationship b/c the truth is I accepted him back and forgave him. Just do not let it happen again. But you live and you learn.