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Does an ex-wife want something when she all the sudden starts acting nice?

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
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    Definitely. It's not necessarily material things. She may need somebody to talk to, pour her problems. . . She may need you to fix her computer or something. . . Or she wants to relive you previous sweetness. . . the possibility is endless. One thing is for sure- she want something from you, be it material, emotional.

  • 2 decades ago

    If she hasnt been nice lately and then she is nice all of a sudden then it's up to you to decide if she's putting on a act or not. You know her best. When my x left me she was only nice when she wanted something and I knew she was a B*****. Maybe she has stopped being mad at you and wants to get on good terms.. Good luck

  • 2 decades ago

    if its an all of the sudden thing. id watch her. i am an ex wife. so i know how the reverse is. she may not want money or something now but shes probly setting you up for something. there is only one thing to be done with ex spouses. keep them as far away as possible. what you loved once is still there and they know that and can use it. but what you hate is still in there to and waiting for a chance to strike. dont get hurt again. dont let your gaurd down

  • 2 decades ago

    I would say: YES!

    But there is a teeny tiny chance that she acutally wants you back. I am divorced for 9 years now and would give anything to have her back.

    Maybe that helps you! But just consider somewhere in the back of your mind that she actually doesn't want just your money or car or house!

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  • Lore
    Lv 6
    2 decades ago

    she could be just trying to be nice, yet on the other hand she could be testing you to see if you will play along. to see if you still have feelings for her etc. i would watch her closely. should you feel you are being used inform her nicely this is not happening any more. move forward on in your life putting the x behind. as you notice it did not work the first time so move onward my friend.

  • 2 decades ago

    Could be several things.

    1.She might want you back,

    2.she might want money or custody, or something similar, or

    3.she might just want to get on with her life and has decided to forgive and forget.

    As someone else here said, you know her better than we do.

  • 2 decades ago

    Damn stright. Whenever my ex starts being nice, I start calling my attorney cause she's up to something !

  • 2 decades ago

    All people act nice when they want something, the nicer they act, the more they want.

    Ex-spouses, especially so.

  • 2 decades ago

    No, I don't think so. Maybe she has finally come to grips with the divorce and wants to be friends.

  • 2 decades ago

    Like everyone else here, yes, she wants something. Find out what it is, and give it to her. ;) Might be fun.

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