How do i get over her or how do i get her?!?! i love her and i dont know what to do...?

have a look at this....

i know its long but if u really luv her pls pls pls pls pls pls read it....

10 th Grade

As I sat there in English class,

I stared at the girl next to me.

She was my so called 'best friend'.

I stared at her long, silky hair,

and wished she was mine.

But she didn't notice me like that,

and I knew it. After class,

she walked up to me and asked me for

the notes she had missed the day before.

I handed them to her.

She said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her, I want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

11th grade

The phone rang. On the other end,

it was her. She was in tears,

mumbling on and on about how her

love had broke her heart.

She asked me to come over because

she didn't want to be alone, So I did.

As I sat next to her on the sofa,

I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine.

After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie,

and three bags of chips, she decided to go home.

She looked at me, said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on

the cheek..

I want to tell her, I want her to know that

I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

Senior year

One fine day she walked to my locker.

"My date is sick" she said, "he's not gonna go"

well,

I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade,

we made a promise that if neither of us had dates,

we would go together just as 'best friends'.

So we did. That night, after everything was over,

I was standing at her front door step.

I stared at her as She smiled at me

and stared at me with her crystal eyes.

Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!"

and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

Graduation

A day passed, then a week, then a month.

Before I could blink, it was graduation day.

I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel

up on stage to get her diploma.

I wanted her to be mine-but

she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.

Before everyone went home,

she came to me in her smock and hat,

and cried as I hugged her.

Then she lifted her head from my shoulder

and said- 'you're my best friend, thanks' and

gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her, I want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

Marriage

Now I sit in the pews of the church.

That girl is getting married now.

and drive off to her new life,

married to another man.

I wanted her to be mine,

but she didn't see me like that,

and I knew it.

But before she drove away,

she came to me and said 'you came !'.

She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.

I want her to know that

I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

Death

Years passed, I looked down at the coffin

of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.

At the service, they read a diary entry

she had wrote in her high school years.

This is what it read:

"I stare at him wishing he was mine;

but he doesn't notice me like that,

and I know it. I want to tell him,

I want him to know that

I don't want to be just friends,

I love him but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

I wish he would tell me he loved me !

.........'I wish I did too...'

I thought to my self, and I cried..........

DONT CRY THN.....

HOPE THIS MGHT GIVE U SUM INSPIRATION TO SPEAK OUT YR FEELINGS

Wow it's too bad that you lost communication....but if you feel that strongly about her and if you know where she is...maybe you should call her up. Not as a means to purposely ruin her new relationship...but you never know...maybe she had feelings for you but if you never told her how you felt she kept her's hidden and then moved on...

Find her, if now to tell her what you've been up to and that you really enjoyed being a part of her life and that you miss it....if she knows exactly how you feel that she can weight things out with how she feels. If she doesn't feel the same...and least you'll feel better that you told her and won't have to wonder "what if" anymore. Hopefully you can still be friends. But if she finds that their is a spark in her heart that's never gone out for you...then there you have it. You'll be her prince with the glass slipper!

If things don't work out that way........

keep yourself busy, pop on this site a lot. Work on your hobbies or look for new hobbies! You'll be surprised how busy they can keep you. I've got piles of things in my head and lists of things that I want to do. Sometimes I have to remember to STOP and take a deep breath. In and Out and know that everything will be O.K. in the long run.

You'll be fine!

Have a nice weekend....

SmileyCat : )

She ain't married yet dude. Tell her what you think. Be prepared for the "I love you as a friend" speech. In that case, you get over her.

If you don't get that speech, win her over man.

by Graham Nash

I've watched you go through changes

That no man should face alone

Take to heel or tame the horse

The choice is still your own

but arm yourself against the pain

A wounded bird can give

And in the end remember

It's with you you have to live

And in the end remember

It's with you you have to live

Stand your ground I think you've got

The guts it takes to win

But you must learn to turn the keys

Before she'll let you in

And understand the problems of the girl you want

so near or you'll wear the coat of questions `til the

answer hat is here

You'll wear the coat of questions `til the

answer hat is here

Serenade your angel with a love song from your eyes

Grow a little taller even though your age defies

Feel a little smaller

And in stature you will rise

A hobo or a poet must kill dragons for a bride;

And humble pie is always hard to swallow

with your pride

If you love her, then you will be happy for her now that she's found someone she wants to spend the rest of her life with. So, it is not LOVE that makes you feel this way. You feel this way because you WANT her.

If you want her, then you'll have to make up your mind: If you want her, then you have no choice but to ruin her engagement and her current love life. How else could you get her otherwise?

On the other hand, if you don't want to ruin her engagement and love life, then forget about wanting her. Just love her and be happy that she's happy with her fiance.

Wow, thats quite the dilemma! if i were you, i would tell her how i felt. she doesnt have to act on it, but she may or she may not. it all depends on how you say it. you could come across as you have to be with me or i will die, or you could say that you have always loved her and you just wanted her to know? But, if she really loves the guy she is with, than she should stay with him. but who knows, maybe she loves you more than him, its hard to know for sure! i would mention it and see how it goes?? Good luck with whatever you decide!!!

Tell her abt wats there in ur mind and heart. Wat if she also has the same feeling? Wat if she is also not so happy with the engagement? If she rejects, thn doesnt matter, anyways she is getting married. In tht case she can never be urs. But tell ur feelings b4 engagement, so tht u wont regret it in the future .

You should read the question that I posted in this category!

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