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Guy preferable!!why you wrote to your ex EVERYDAY when you still have a gf?

my ex wrote to me everyday after he cheated on his gf with me. He said he needed few weeks to figure things out.He said I am his ideal dream girl and he feel so safe and 100% himself with me.His new gf is for fun. How much the chance he meant it, or he just simply kept me as a safety net.Should I believe his sweet talk?

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BTW, I am thousand of miles away from him now, and his new gf is 20 mins around.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    If you can handle getting hurt some more, keep responding to him. I'd personally suggest that he's a typical man though, with only HIS best interests at heart. If I felt 100% about a girl, there'd be no one else I could be with, or anyone else that could occupy my thoughts other than her(100% means 100%!). Sorry, I wish I could give you the answer you are really wanting, but he seems to be trying to keep a backdoor open for himself alone.

    'Sweet talk' may be all it is.

    You're a kind, trusting girl, that can be dangerous in the world as it is now. If it doesn't 'feel' right in any way to you, it isn't. Trust that gut of yours, it's the only thing that won't let you down.

  • 2 decades ago

    Safety net, rebound, person to fall back on. Need I say more?

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    i wouldn't believe it. if it were true, wouldn't he be with you rather than his girlfriend? sounds to me like you are his "plan b."

  • 2 decades ago

    no if he is doing this too his girlfriend hel do it to u

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  • 2 decades ago

    He will dump, if you tell him to come with you and dump her he will

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