what will u do if u pregnant before married ??

I would eat everything in sight after my morning sickness subsided. Then I'd have the baby and if things were still good between me and the baby's daddy we could talk about marriage. No need to get married just to have a baby. Wait and make sure it is right- divorces are ugly and expensive. Dont rush into things. Have the baby first and take one step at a time. Your child could be your ring bearer or flower girl in your wedding someday- just make sure you get married to the right person.

I got pregnant before I was married. So, we got married. Now we are divorced and I have two kids. I think you don't have to be married to have the baby. I thought that was the right thing to do b/c of my family pressure and thought I can work on a marriage. Turned out he wasn't ready and was out with his friends all the time. It would have been easier to just not have gotten married and raised my son with the fathers help. Then I wouldn't have had to pay for the divorce. And, I probably wouldn't have 2 kids to take care of. Believe me, if you have one, you can do it, find people who support your decision. If it isn't family, then find other single mothers out there, or your church. Believe me, if you knew what I have gone through the last 2 years, you can do it!

I would go through with the pregnancy and if you are young and don't feel are ready for the responsibilities of motherhood, give your baby to a loving family who is ready for that kind of commitment. If you love the father of the baby and he loves you, I suggest marrying each other out of love, I don't recommend you getting married for the sake of hiding the pregnancy. Also this is a lesson many people learn...use portection or abstain from sex...that is the only solution. But because you are already over that stage, do what is best for you and your baby. and even though the baby has come as a suprise, love your baby, congratulations! I don't eman that sarcarstically...I mean sincereley, congratulations on your new addition to the family! MayMay

I'd have my baby and getting married or not would depend on the circumstances. Marriage is the best scenario for having a baby but not an automatic solution after the fact.

You've got 9 months to think about it. Most of the time aborshon runs first through the head but it's not the wiseset of choises. There are a lot of councelling centres. And sooner or later the parents will find out. Especially mum. Like I said there is time to find a solution

Well depending on how old you are. Its actually all up to you, you only know your situation. You should think carefully and think of all the consequences. You dont necessarily have to get married because of a pregnancy. it all depends on what you beleive in. If you really want this baby then keep it instead of doing something that you might regret. remember its your body and it all depends on what you want. everyone has different views and beliefs.

The best thing is to avoid unwanted pregnancy. But if it happens: get married if you are in love with a person or consult a doctor as soon as possible.

I would have the baby. And marry the dad if he was the sort of person I could spend the rest of my life with. But definitely have the baby.

Go on with the pregancy. You can't correct a mistake with another mistake. Besides, it's not the fault of your baby. Be responsible on the things that you do. Or go get the father of your baby and ask him to marry you.

I would ring a newspaper and get loads of cash for most odd story of the century, I am a 33 year old MALE.