What would you do if your sister won't listen to you!?

If I had to say something like that to my brother, then I would tell him that he is truly hurting my feelings and that if he loved me at all, he would respect my wishes! Tell her that you feel this is an unhealthy relationship and that if she does care about you and really want to be part of your life then she will stop until you are ready to be in contact with her again! Hope you can get through to her! Good luck and God bless!

Wow, I see all kinds of issues here. First, for someone who is 35, and from Green Bay (Packers fan), I can tell from your writing that you probably could use some more schooling.

Second, if you were abused by your mother, then you and your sister came from a dysfunctional family, and you could both use some counseling so you are not passing unhealthy habits on to your family.

Third, your sister cannot enter your life without your permission. She cannot forcibly intrude on your life - unless she is coming to your home, breaking into your house, and holding your family at gun point. At some point here, you need to realize that you are letting her into your life.

I highly recommend counseling. You are not cursed to repeat the mistakes of your childhood family, UNLESS you don't deal with them and understand them.

How is she bothering you exactly? Is she far away? If she is how much trouble can she be? Just don't answer if she calls, don't let her in if she comes to your place. Don't answer her emails. If all she gets when she contacts you is told to go away she'll eventually do that, some people are a little slower on the uptake than others but if you are consistent about it she'll go away.

Have no futher contact with her. No emails, writing, or phone calls. Don't let her in your house or speak to anyone there. If there is abuse call the police. No contact. None.

Restraining order

seems as if you need to let her be her and really you need to find positive people that wont let you down cause you wont ever move forward if you let your sister keep hurting you and try to be who you want to be and let her come to you,cause eight er shell need you some day so free yourself from all this drama

If she is 4000 miles away then simply do not contact her. Avoid contact FROM her.....delete her emails unread....get caller ID so you know if she's calling...

Explain to her in a nice way that it hurts you that she doesn't listen or believe you.If your mom is abusing you report her.

No matter how annoying she is, it's not fair for you to tell her to go away. It's her family, too.

arrange an "accident" for her. that's what i did with my 3 sisters but now i kinda miss them.