Older ladies I'm a younger married women with 2 kids any ideas?

I've said it before, I'll say it again: Communication, communication, communication!!! Telling us on here is great, but the problem is with your husband. If you don't speak up, how will he know what's going on inside your head?

Tell him what you've said here, and ask him why he feels he has to hang out every weekend. When he comes up with an answer, talk about it.

After that, what you can do is, check with his schedule, and if there's nothing already planned, say this to him, "Honey, I have something planned for the two of us to do next weekend, and I'd really like it if you'd join me". If he comes, great; if he comes up with excuses not to go, you tell him that he'll miss out, and you're going anyway.

One thing my mother always told me is this: Leave a little mystery about you, don't tell him everything. I didn't understand it until after I'd been married for a while, but I get it now. Good luck.

Ok im gonna tell you, but will you do it???? here is what you do , tell your husband to invite his friends over to your house this weekend if he wants to see them, because mommy needs the weekend off, and he will be watching the kids. NOW YOU GO HAVE SOME FUN, AND LET DADDY TAKE CARE OF HIS BABIES FOR A CHANGE. this really works. lol

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